Men often have a reputation for being bad at gift-giving. Whether that’s entirely fair is debatable, but thisRedditor’shusband didn’t do much to challenge the stereotype.
Understandably, his wife was devastated. Read the full story below.
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Why do bad gifts hurt so much?
At first glance, it might seem strange to get upset over something someone bought or made just for you. After all, gifts are meant to be a thoughtful gesture—an expression of care, love, or appreciation. They’re not technically a requirement, but more of a symbolic way to show someone voluntarily wanted to make you feel special.
And that’s exactly why receiving a bad gift can sting so much. When the present feels thoughtless, completely impractical, or doesn’t reflect who we are, it makes us question:Does this person really know me? Do they care enough to try?
On top of that, there’s often pressure to pretend we’re happy with a disappointing gift. According to the same Wish survey, nearly 80% of Americans believe they’ve mastered the art of the fake smile, claiming they’re great at faking enthusiasm when opening a bad present. But it doesn’t stop there—many of us feel obligated to hold onto the gift, regift it, or keep it on display just to avoid hurting the other person’s feelings.
However, when a giftdoeshit the mark, it leaves a lasting impact. It can make us feel seen, valued, and connected. Theright presentcan create meaningful memories, strengthen relationships, and become something we treasure for years. We show it off, tell stories about it, and feel genuinely loved because of the thought behind it.
So if you’ve ever dismissed the importance of gift-giving—or the hurt that comes from getting it wrong—this is a great reminder that putting in a little extra effort can go a long way.
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Readers felt deeply upset for the woman, calling her husband’s actions terrible
One commenter shared a similar experience
While others suggested she was also to blame for not leaving him
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