Body odor is one of those things that you learn pretty quickly has to be handled. Smell, as it turns out, is pretty important and if people can’t be in the same room as you, that’s a problem. Thankfully, most of us understand this and assume that the majority of people we mightdateunderstand it as well. But, there are always some exceptions.
A manasked the internetif he was wrong to ask his girlfriend to maybe not skip showering for weeks. As it turns out, this was not something she wanted to hear. The man who made the post was kind enough to share some more thoughts and details with us.
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But one couple get into an argument when the man asked his girlfriend to please shower
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The man got back to us and shared some of his thoughts
Bored Pandagot in touch with the netizen who made the post and he was kind enough to answer some of our questions. His post did go viral so we were curious to hear why he thought that happened and how he felt about it. “I think people found it engaging for a few reasons. If it’s a gender to not shower often, people would typically assume it’s mostly men and notwomen,” he shared.
The girlfriend’s reaction was excessive and a red flag
First and foremost, just removing body odor alone is a good enough reason to shower regularly. It’s important to note that this doesn’t necessarily mean showering every single day.One studysuggests that this can end up creating dry skin and even weakening our immune system. It needs bacteria and dirt to keep it active.
The bigger issue, however, is the fact that the girlfriend immediately escalated theconflict. It’s possible to make mistakes, to be nose-blind or just be misinformed about how often one should clean themselves. But when asked to shower, she turned it into a fight and demanded to know if he wanted to break up. This shows a deep level of insecurity, which, paired with her delusions, are a good reason for him to get out of this relationship. It’s not only toxic in terms of smell but emotionally as well.
Most sided with him and a few wanted more details
Readers thought the GF was out of line
Some thought everyone was in the wrong
Later, he shared a sizable update
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