Dogs aren’t for everyone, and that’s OK. But when an owner can’t keep a handle on their hound, things can get messy fast. Untrained dogs may be a menace, but it’s not their fault, they’re just being doggos.
For one woman, she’s at her wits’ end over her mother’s absurd “requirements” for her pooch, including everything from feeding it rotisserie chicken off the floor to bringing along its own special humping blanket. She turned to Mumsnet to vent.
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She has a list of absurd requirements for her pooch, even when she’s at her daughter’s house
She only feeds her doggo rotisserie chicken off the floor and insists on bringing along his special humping blanket when she stays over
To make matters worse, he drags his behind across the daughter’s carpets and licks absolutely everything, including between the mom’s toes
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The woman couldn’t tolerate it anymore, her furious mom left in a huff, now she’s asking if she’s being unreasonable
According to OP, her DM has a list of requirements for her pooch that makes things really difficult when her mother stays over. At the top of the list is the fact that the dog only gets fed store-bought rotisseriechicken, which he eats off the floor since he’s afraid of plates. He will also only drink water out of a glass that needs to be refreshed 3 times a day, despite OP having witnessed him tucking into her cats’ food and water bowls.
OP’s list of complaints goes on, including everything from the fact that the pooch endlessly licks everything (including between her mother’s toes), chases her cats, wipes his behind on her carpets, and humped her throwcushionsuntil her mother brought along his special humping blanket.
She goes on to add that her mother’s at the point where she feels the dog is entitled to his gross behaviors, even though it’s not her home. Things came to a head when OP glanced at the dog to find out what it was licking this time and her mom got furious and declared she and the dog were leaving. OP reached out to Mumsnet to ask if this was normal behavior for dogs or if she was being unreasonable.
From what OP tells us in her post, it would definitely seem that her mom is taking liberties in thisrelationshipand acting rather entitled, especially since it’s not even her house. The dog doesn’t know any better, so surely she’s at fault?
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In herarticlefor the American Kennel Club, Mary Robins writes thatnew researchshows that owners of hyperactive or inattentive dogs can learn a lot from understanding ADHD in humans.
If your dog is displaying symptoms of hyperactivity despite adequate exercise, take them to avetto see if they’re suffering from the relatively rare behavioral disorder ‘hyperkinesis’ or even canine compulsive disorder (CCD) which is equivalent to human obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD).
“Hyperkinetic dogs have a difficult time settling and they appear to be aroused and distracted, oftentimes even in environments that are calm,” says certified applied animal behavioristDr. Mary Burch. Though this disorder is rare, if your dog is suffering from it, there are actually medications that can help.
As far as the problem dog’s licking goes, in herarticlefor PetMD, Stephanie Betbeze writes that, although licking can be harmless in some cases, it can also signal an issue, whether it’s behavior or health-related.
Betbeze adds that, if your dog doesn’t appear to favor licking only one thing, it’s probably a self-soothing behavior or even a compulsive habit. It might also be a sign of infection, gastrointestinal upset, or arthritis.
Ignoring your dog’s incessant licking can lead to self-trauma, secondary infections, or unwanted behaviors, so consulting a vet or dog trainer is likely the best solution.
Considering OP’s mom feeds her dog a steady diet of rotisserie chicken, we wouldn’t be surprised if it had some kind of stomach issues. That might explain it scooting across OP’s carpets too, since its posterior glands could be clogged or irritated, a common symptom of an unbalanced doggy diet.
Bored Pandareached out to therapistYvonne K. Fulbright, PhD, MSEd, to get her take on the situation.
According to Fulbright, there are obvious issues/tensions between the 2 parties; the dog is being used, whether as part of an ongoing power struggle or as an indirect (albeit difficult) way to seek attention and care.
Fulbright adds that both parties need to step back from the situation and consider how they’re each contributing to the problem.
“What could each be doing better while trying to be compassionate toward the other’s needs, concerns and feelings? At the end of the day, the person who is hosting needs to draw her boundaries, e.g., if the dog needs rotisserie chicken, then his owner needs to buy it, serve him, etc. The situation isn’t going to change while the DM is the one able to call all of the shots,” she concludes.
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