Friendships are a lot easier when people are on the same page about money. It’s the differences in financial expectations and spending habits that make them more complicated than they need to be. Sadly, Reddit userStarryNight5626knows this all too well.

The woman and her husband were recently invited to stay at her old friend’s place. However, after they left, she got a detailed bill that the two of them had to pay for their visit, which came as a big unpleasant surprise to her, since something like this hasn’t happened before.

After this woman visited her old friend, she received an unpleasant surprise

Woman Shocked To Get A List Of Everything She Owes Her Friend After Visiting

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Which came in a form of a detailed bill for the stay

Woman Shocked To Get A List Of Everything She Owes Her Friend After Visiting

Woman Shocked To Get A List Of Everything She Owes Her Friend After Visiting

Woman Shocked To Get A List Of Everything She Owes Her Friend After Visiting

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To avoid such situations, it’s best to stay open with your friends about money and discuss everything beforehand

A possible reason for the prevalence of such disagreements among friends could be the fact that the majority of Americans (62%)saythey don’t regularly talk about money (even though 66% believe money conversations can help more people achieve financial freedom).

Nearly half (46%) of respondents say they don’t talk about money with their partners while 75% claim they don’t have financial conversations with their friends.

“If we don’t talk about [money], then we might read something, but really, we’re gonna just take our best guess without getting the experience and perspective of others,” Craig Birk, chief investment officer at Empower Personal Wealth,tellsCNBC Make It.

“It’s the same as if you’re trying to apply to college — the best thing you can do is talk to other people who went through the process and learn how they did it and what worked for them.”

As her story went viral, the woman provided more information on it

Woman Shocked To Get A List Of Everything She Owes Her Friend After Visiting

Woman Shocked To Get A List Of Everything She Owes Her Friend After Visiting

Woman Shocked To Get A List Of Everything She Owes Her Friend After Visiting

Woman Shocked To Get A List Of Everything She Owes Her Friend After Visiting

Woman Shocked To Get A List Of Everything She Owes Her Friend After Visiting

Woman Shocked To Get A List Of Everything She Owes Her Friend After Visiting

Woman Shocked To Get A List Of Everything She Owes Her Friend After Visiting

Some even shared their own similar experiences

Woman Shocked To Get A List Of Everything She Owes Her Friend After Visiting

Woman Shocked To Get A List Of Everything She Owes Her Friend After Visiting

Woman Shocked To Get A List Of Everything She Owes Her Friend After Visiting

Woman Shocked To Get A List Of Everything She Owes Her Friend After Visiting

Woman Shocked To Get A List Of Everything She Owes Her Friend After Visiting

Woman Shocked To Get A List Of Everything She Owes Her Friend After Visiting

Woman Shocked To Get A List Of Everything She Owes Her Friend After Visiting

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