Unfortunately, such a wholesome experience was soured forthis couplewhen the husband asked for a paternity test 4 months into the pregnancy. The wife was very confused about his request, as he had no reason to believe she was unfaithful to him. He still insisted on it, and she finally agreed, but only if he scheduled it himself.
Scroll down to read the full story and a conversation with marriage and family therapist,Dr. Jane Greer, who kindly agreed to tell us more about couples deciding to perform paternity tests.
There’s a lot of excitement involved in bringing a new life into the world
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300,000 paternity tests are performed in the US annually
Bored Pandareached out to marriage and family therapistDr. Jane Greer, who kindly agreed to tell us more about why couples decide to perform such a test.
She told us that a father may insist on a paternity test for “reassurance” or “peace of mind” without suspicions of infidelity for several reasons. “It may be to protect his legal rights in case of future disputes or to strengthen the emotional bond with the child and provide a sense of security.”
There are also health reasons, genetic heritage, and potential risks to consider. Additionally, the child who was separated from their father may want to restore the biological relationship in the future to alleviate any lingering doubts or concerns.
Paternity testing may have severe effects on mental health
“It can affect the father’s sense of identity and role within the family, the couple’s relationship, and the children’s emotional well-being. If the test confirms the father’s paternity, it can provide a sense of security and stability for the child. However, if the test reveals that the father is not the biological father, it can be emotionally challenging and may lead to feelings of confusion or loss.”
She further advises parents to respect each other’s boundaries and give each other some space if needed. Afterward, try to approach the situation as a team and work together to find solutions that foster support when going through such challenges. “The goal should be to protect the welfare of the child and offer a positive and supportive plan for the future together, regardless of the outcome of the test,” she concludes.
Commenters supported the wife and shamed the husband for not being able to schedule the appointment
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