Having a newborn inevitably means less sleep and lots more to do, unless you have help. And if you’re alreadyparentingan older child, it can push you to breaking point. When one woman split from the father of her second child soon after givingbirth, she found herself unable to cope with the demands of motherhood and life.
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When one woman broke up with the father of her newborn, she called another ex to help, much to the dismay of his wife
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There are options for single moms who find themselves unable to cope with all that life throws at them
Trying to heal from birth and a break-up while doing everything else could get particularly overwhelming. But there are options available if you need help.
Instead of constantly making trips to the store for essentials like diapers, wipes and formula, consider buying these things in bulk. That means you’ll have less chance of running out of them, and you’ll save yourself some time and stress. The same goes for meal prepping and making dinners in advance. Don’t beat yourself up if you buy a few frozen meals to avoid having to cook.
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Find out if there’s a lift club to or from school for your older child, and if so, consider making use of it. While you’re at it, why not reach out to a few of your child’s friends’ parents to set up play dates, or even just ask for support?
If you can afford it, a nanny or even an overnight newborn specialist might be a good choice. They’ll be able to step in when needed so that you can get some much-needed sleep.
According to “What To Expect”, these professionals don’t come cheap: anywhere from $160 to $360 a night, or $20 to $45 per hour, depending on various factors like your location, their credentials and experience, and how many babies you have. But they’re apparently worth every penny.
Most importantly, don’t suffer in silence. And don’t be scared to ask for help. Friends and family might be more understanding and willing than you think. There are many support groups for single moms. You are not alone. But if you find yourself buckling under the pressure, and yourmental healthis at risk, please seek professional help from a qualified therapist.
Many felt the wife shouldn’t have to buy nappies and groceries, and advised her to only help with “reasonable” requests
“Put your compassionate hat on and suck it up”: some felt the woman was being unreasonable
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