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With children, even something as mundane as going to the pool can become an event

Women’s changing room with lockers, robes, and a sauna, featuring blue and wood accents.

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After going to the pool, this dad was stopped from entering the woman’s changing room with his daughter

Woman Kicks Out Dad With A Daughter From Women’s Changing Room, Asks If She Was Right

Text about a man arriving at a pool with his young daughter after aqua aerobics.

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Text from a discussion regarding daughter’s presence in a women’s changing room at a pool, with staff member interaction.

Woman Kicks Out Dad With A Daughter From Women’s Changing Room, Asks If She Was Right

Text about a hotel guest with his daughter, contemplating using the women’s changing room.

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Text describing an open-plan women’s changing room with cubicles and showers.

Text discussing a dad attempting to bring his daughter into a women’s changing room; suggests alternatives.

Text screenshot discussing a dad’s decision about using women’s changing rooms with his daughter.

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Text excerpt on a woman questioning a dad about bringing his daughter into a women’s changing room.

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Text discusses being told not to bring daughter to women’s changing room during adult hours.

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Text expressing concern about a father taking his daughter into a women’s changing room and seeking opinions on the matter.

Woman Kicks Out Dad With A Daughter From Women’s Changing Room, Asks If She Was Right

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Text discussing opinions on using a disabled changing room, saying it’s wrong without having a disability.

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Choosing the right changing room when you’re with kids can be tricky

Woman Kicks Out Dad With A Daughter From Women’s Changing Room, Asks If She Was Right

For better or worse, life withchildrenis never dull; nor is it easy. Even something as seemingly mundane as a walk in the park might beno walk in the park, especially if the little one is in a mood.

That goes for going elsewhere, too, including the pool or other establishments that might require changing garments. While seeing a mom with a toddler boy in a woman’s changing room, for example, might not be surprising to people around them, the same situation would arguably be viewed very differently if she brought with her a teenager. So what should parents do if their child is not old enough to go on their own, but old enough to make some people uncomfortable?

Ideally, they should choose the family changing room option. However, that is not something that every pool has to offer. In many places, though, there are rules and regulations regarding the age of children allowed in certain changing rooms; in the OP’s case, for example, the pool seemingly didn’t allow kids over the age of eight to enter the changing rooms of the opposite sex.

Clearly, there is no ‘one age fits all’ solution when it comes to such situations. Unsurprisingly, there is no one unanimous opinion regarding them, either, which is why some netizens sided with the OP, while others suggested she was indeed being unreasonable.

The woman shared more details with fellow netizens

Text discusses discomfort with a dad bringing daughter to women’s changing room, questioning appropriateness.

Some people sided with the OP, saying that she was right to stop the man from entering the woman’s changing room

Text screenshot discussing issues with a dad bringing his daughter to a women’s changing room.

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Woman Kicks Out Dad With A Daughter From Women’s Changing Room, Asks If She Was Right

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Others, however, shared a different opinion

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Text from an online discussion about a dad taking daughter to women’s changing room.

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