Is your mother-in-law secretly an interior decorator? Or maybe she just thinks your taste inhome decorneeds a little, maybe a lot, of help. Some mother-in-laws have this magical ability to be both “helpful” and infuriating at the same time. It’s like they’ve earned a PhD in meddling and specialized in driving you up the wall.
Just when you think you’ve got everything under control, they swoop in with their unsolicited advice, a dust cloth, and an iron. This is what one woman constantly goes through when hermother-in-lawinvites herself to her home to iron her husband’s shirts and “help” her clean the house.
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Woman’s overbearing mother-in-law invites herself over to her house to “help” her clean and completely rearranges her living room while she’s at work
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The mother-in-law constantly changes things around her daughter-in-law’s home, rearranges her rooms, destroys her garden and reorganizes her kitchen
The mother-in-law didn’t like her daughter-in-law’s wildflower garden, so she decided to sneakily destroy it
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“I just want to feel needed”: The woman is fed up with her overbearing mother-in-law, who keeps changing things around her home without asking, saying she only wants to “help”
The couch wasn’t where it used to be, the armchair was now basking in the “better afternoon light” (whatever that means), and every single item in the living room had been “rearranged” in a way that only makes sense to someone living in an alternate universe. The mysterious decorator? None other than the OP’s mother-in-law, a woman with no concept of boundaries, apparently.
The day before her redecorating session, she had called her son to let him know she was coming over to clean the house and iron his shirts, because, clearly, a 40-year-old man is incapable of operating an iron without mom’s supervision.
Knowing hismomall too well, the OP’s husband told her she could come over to visit, as long as she kept her hands away from the iron and the vacuum. But if you think that stopped the mother-in-law, you’ve seriously underestimated her determination.
While her son was outside, and her daughter-in-law was on a work call, mom saw her chance and completely rearranged the couple’s living room. And the result? Let’s just say the room no longer resembled anything like the cozy space it once was. It was as if a particularly ambitioustoddlerhad decided to redecorate.
But this wasn’t a one-time offense. Oh no, this mother-in-law has a track record that could make anyone’s blood boil. Like the time she mowed down her daughter-in-law’s wildflower meadow in the front garden because she thought it looked like “ugly weeds.”
Or that special occasion when she “organized” the kitchen drawers, leaving nothing where it could be easily found. Not to mention her tendency to destroy clothes in the name of ironing. And let’s not forget the time she secretly fed the familydogto make it like her more. As if it were that easy.
The cherry on top? After she’d completely rearranged the living room, she had the nerve to drop the most passive-aggressive line ever: “I hope you’re not angry with me.” Seriously? It was like watching someone pour salt into a wound and then ask, “Does it hurt?” The OP was stuck rearranging the entire room and avoiding the guilt-loaded text messages from her overbearing mother-in-law.
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But why are some mother-in-laws so overbearing? It’s like they’ve got an unspoken mission to rearrange not just your living room but your entire life. Well,expertssay this kind of behavior could be the result of a few things. Maybe she grew up in a tough environment, where control was the name of the game.
Or maybe her own partner is so dominant that she’s decided to channel all her energy into her kids and their spouses. Lucky us, right? Or maybe narcissism is in the mix here. Whether your mother-in-law has a personality that craves constant admiration or something more serious like narcissistic personality disorder, she just has to be the star of the show.
“You may notice that your mother-in-law purposefully ignores the boundaries you’ve set in your home or constantly overstays her welcome. She openly shares her judgments and opinions often, despite resistance from you and your family. If your mother-in-law pressures you to do everything her way, claims “she knows best,” or berates you on the regular, her behaviors could all be indicators of an autocratic personality,” experts explain.
And dealing with an overbearing mother-in-law isn’t exactly a walk in the park.Therapistssuggest setting some boundaries early on, kind of like putting up a “Do Not Disturb” sign on your life. It’s all about being polite but firm. Think of it as saying, “Thanks, but no thanks,” with a smile.
Netizens say the woman is not being unreasonable for being angry at her mother-in-law for rearranging her living room, saying she should do the same to her
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