Becoming aparentis a special moment that many people can’t wait for. But for some, such a moment comes as more of a surprise than for others.
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While many people can’t wait to become parents, some choose to remain child-free
Needless to say, raising a child is a huge responsibility; one that people should think long and hard about before trying to wave down astork carryinga bundle of joy. And while some are ready to bear said responsibility and face any challenges—and joys—that parenthood brings, some people are simply not willing to undergo all that it entails.
Consequently, many people nowadays choose to remainchild-free. A Pew Research Centersurveycarried out earlier this year found that out of child-free adults aged 50 and over, roughly a third said that the reason they didn’t have offspring was simply because they never wanted to. (A similar number of respondents said they didn’t find the right partner to have kids with and roughly 40% shared that it “just never happened” for them.)
Close to 40% of respondents reported that they did want to have kids at one point in their lives, and roughly a quarter admitted that they were never sure about it.
Many children in the US live in single-parent households
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While some people plan on becoming parents and others don’t, unexpected things in life happen all the time, and they can make one change any plans they had fairly quickly. Some change in life entails individuals with kids becoming single parents, and that is in no way a rare scenario nowadays.
According to Pew Research Center’sdata from 2019, the US had the world’s highest rate of children living in single-parent households. Close to a quarter (23%) of kids in the US under the age of 18 lived with one parent and no other adults, which is more than three times the share of kids around the world who live in one-parent households (7%).
According toStatista, more children in single-parent households live with their mother only; last year, the number of such kids was roughly 15,000, while those living with a single dad only added up to just over 3,000 kids. Somesources suggestthat moms aged 16 to 19 comprise less than 1% of single parents.
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