The popular internet term nice guy refers to a social stereotype associated with young adult males who think that acting like a caring and empathetic gentlemanmakes them entitled to women’s affection and romantic interest.However, we would like to show you that such wishful thinking isn’t exclusive to just one gender and introduce you to the so-called nice girls. So we invite you to take a look at the content we gathered froma subreddit of the same name, as it perfectly illustrates their peculiar ways.This post may includeaffiliate links.

The popular internet term nice guy refers to a social stereotype associated with young adult males who think that acting like a caring and empathetic gentlemanmakes them entitled to women’s affection and romantic interest.

However, we would like to show you that such wishful thinking isn’t exclusive to just one gender and introduce you to the so-called nice girls. So we invite you to take a look at the content we gathered froma subreddit of the same name, as it perfectly illustrates their peculiar ways.

This post may includeaffiliate links.

Nice Respectable Girl Can’t Find A Man

Umm

“[This subreddit is meant] for all the self-proclaimed ‘nice girls,'” the moderators of the online community write in its ‘About’ section.“For the women who complain ‘guys are only interested in sluts.’ For women who complain that men are shallow for not dating overweight women, while also demanding that their man have washboard abs. For the women who hold others to the highest possible standard, but have no standards for themselves.”

“[This subreddit is meant] for all the self-proclaimed ‘nice girls,'” the moderators of the online community write in its ‘About’ section.

“For the women who complain ‘guys are only interested in sluts.’ For women who complain that men are shallow for not dating overweight women, while also demanding that their man have washboard abs. For the women who hold others to the highest possible standard, but have no standards for themselves.”

Not Sure If This Counts But

If You Can’t Handle Me At My Worst

This Can Fit This Sub And R/Niceguys Equally Well

“This sub is not for female incels,” the moderators clarify, adding that, “this place is not for crazy girls,” either.

He Shall Find A Hook-Up

Just Your Typical Nicegirl

Is She Missing Anything Else?

We got in touch with the people taking care of this online community and asked if they believe there are levels to the nice girl syndrome, or is it more like a ‘package.'“It’s an honest mix,” the moderators toldBored Panda. “Some are extremely immature, some are extremely toxic, and others are just jerks.“But it’s not just the nice girls that the members of the subreddit are fed up with. “Repost bots are the current most hated thing. These are generally accounts that have been around 4-6 months; they suddenly come to life and will repost a post from 2-5 years ago, with the exact same title, attempting to farm karma.”

We got in touch with the people taking care of this online community and asked if they believe there are levels to the nice girl syndrome, or is it more like a ‘package.’

“It’s an honest mix,” the moderators toldBored Panda. “Some are extremely immature, some are extremely toxic, and others are just jerks.”

But it’s not just the nice girls that the members of the subreddit are fed up with. “Repost bots are the current most hated thing. These are generally accounts that have been around 4-6 months; they suddenly come to life and will repost a post from 2-5 years ago, with the exact same title, attempting to farm karma.”

Does This Count?

Queen Of Clowns

My Friend Sent Me This Screenshot

Physically Cringing

“We’d like to add that you should always read the rules first and foremost before you post,” the moderators said.“Remembering the human is also extremely important.” And that goes beyond just reposting.

“We’d like to add that you should always read the rules first and foremost before you post,” the moderators said.

“Remembering the human is also extremely important.” And that goes beyond just reposting.

Hey….can I Ask Why Have You Decided To Unfollow Me?

Never Thought This Sh<em>t Would Happen, Like What The F</em>ck

He Was Genuinely About To Leave The Library To Go See Her Too

According to writer Raluca Popescu, the notion that you have to be nice to everyone in order to be loved and accepted is basically a mission impossible and a completely useless task to even try in the first place.“This idea is based on a deeper one that says ‘you are not good enough,” Popescuexplains. “So you have to do things and be in certain ways to be loved. Things and ways that almost always do not reflect the real you.““If you are a nice girl how could you say ‘no’ when a colleague asks for your help with that report that’s his responsibility?” Popescu asks rhetorically.“You don’t have kids waiting for you at home so you spend on two extra hours to help. And he will take credit for it. But you don’t mind, you are so nice, you are happy you could help.”

According to writer Raluca Popescu, the notion that you have to be nice to everyone in order to be loved and accepted is basically a mission impossible and a completely useless task to even try in the first place.

“This idea is based on a deeper one that says ‘you are not good enough,” Popescuexplains. “So you have to do things and be in certain ways to be loved. Things and ways that almost always do not reflect the real you.”

“If you are a nice girl how could you say ‘no’ when a colleague asks for your help with that report that’s his responsibility?” Popescu asks rhetorically.

“You don’t have kids waiting for you at home so you spend on two extra hours to help. And he will take credit for it. But you don’t mind, you are so nice, you are happy you could help.”

(Ex)gf Hit Me With A Car And Then Sent This

I Think This Is Abuse

Her Getting D Tonight Is Ok But I Guess Men Can’t?

“However, if you look at your past relationships you will find a common thread: they were all based on at least one key factor. This factor assured the impossibility of the relationship to ever turn into a fully committed one.”

From A Nicegirl On My Facebook

She Is Cursed

My Ex’s Reply When I Told Her I Was Going To Break Up With Her For Cheating On Me

Hmm

This key factor that she talks about can be any a variety of things, from him being married to a huge age difference and him having some type of addiction.“As a rule of thumb, you choose a man that for some reason is unavailable to fully commit to a relationship. You stay with him as long as that barrier is there so you have something to fight for. This way you hide your own fear and easily ‘blame’ it on him. The mindset is: ‘If he only did this or that…'”

This key factor that she talks about can be any a variety of things, from him being married to a huge age difference and him having some type of addiction.

“As a rule of thumb, you choose a man that for some reason is unavailable to fully commit to a relationship. You stay with him as long as that barrier is there so you have something to fight for. This way you hide your own fear and easily ‘blame’ it on him. The mindset is: ‘If he only did this or that…'”

Ironic

A Rare Daily Double Of Nice Guy And Girl

Sounds Like A Really Great Relationship

Popescu says she has thought a lot about how women can overcome the nice girl syndrome. She thinks that once they realize that they might be suffering from it, they should consciously choose to act and think differently.“Just be curious and open about it,” she advises. “Don’t take yourself too seriously. Laugh when you catch yourself acting automatically as a nice girl.““There is a beautiful, authentic you underneath the mask. Do yourself and the world a huge favor and let it shine!”

Popescu says she has thought a lot about how women can overcome the nice girl syndrome. She thinks that once they realize that they might be suffering from it, they should consciously choose to act and think differently.

“Just be curious and open about it,” she advises. “Don’t take yourself too seriously. Laugh when you catch yourself acting automatically as a nice girl.”

“There is a beautiful, authentic you underneath the mask. Do yourself and the world a huge favor and let it shine!”

Basic Questions And Got Sas Back

My Ex’s Responses When She Broke Up With Me And I Quit Responding To Her

Good Thing She’ll Probably Never Have A Wedding!!

If you are interested in other ways this syndrome manifests in people, fire up our earlier publications:40 Examples Of ‘Nice Girls’, A Female Equivalent Of The Toxic ‘Nice Guys’and35 Times People Didn’t Let The “Nice Girl” Act Slide, And They Got Shamed On This Group.

This Trend Is So Weird To Me

Nicegirl Doesn&rsquo;t Know Why Boys Won&rsquo;t Date Her. Gee I Wonder Why?

And Breaking Worth 40$ Isn&rsquo;t Cruel?

Call Ya Mom

She&rsquo;s Not Like Other Girls, She Has Intellagince

Ah, Of Course

Found One In The Wild On Bumble

I Understand The First Two But Going To The Gym And Having Friends Is Bad?

Ex Gfs Last Message I Ever Read. She Really Went Out Of Her Way To Take A Stab. Never Responded. Blocked Out Identifying Info

A Girl&rsquo;s List Of Red Flags

Coming From A Basic “Alt” Girl On Tiktok

Girl Wouldn&rsquo;t Leave Friend Alone

So Much Easier Than Communicating

Aw Yes, Because It Definitely Happened In The Real World The Other Way &lsquo;Round. Wasn&rsquo;t A Movie Or Anything

Marilyn Didn’t Really Say This But What The Hell. Let’s Roll With It

Well This Girl Sure Is Salty Lol

Another One

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Does This Count As &ldquo;Nice Girl&rdquo;?

“So Don&rsquo;t Lie To Me, Champ”

Those Damn Unattractive People Staying In Loving Relationships

Well That Escalated Quickly

Ariele Is Feeling Some Entitlement Here. Lol

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Shared By A Woman With A Military Boyfriend

&ldquo;Put Your D**k In My Mouth!&quot;

My Ex

My 32 Y&rsquo;o Friend Posted This Unironically With A &ldquo;So Me&rdquo; Caption

I’m So God Damn Sick Of Seeing These On My Facebook Because Of People I Went To High School With

&ldquo;One Mistake Shouldn&rsquo;t Separate Us Forever :-(&quot;

Tells Me That We’re Done, Then Gets Upset When I Listen To Her

Just Rp With Me

A Girl I Know Had This On Her Insta Story. Imagine A Dude Uploaded This

A Girl I&rsquo;m Meant To Be Going On A Date With Later Just Posted This

Floyd Mayweather Weighs Under 150, Go On Ahead Ladies

Happened Almost A Year Ago. She Took 10 Years Off My Life

Because Cheatings Okay Right?

Always Knew This Girl At School Was A Little &ldquo;Unbalanced&rdquo;

Nearly 8 Years Since I Have Talked To My Ex

Holy

All Because I Said “We Should Hang Out”

How Tall Are You?

Friend&rsquo;s Ex Girlfriend Sent This To Him&hellip; Ex

Nearly Every Cliche From This Sub, Nice

The Very Next Tweet Lol&hellip;come On

I Think I&rsquo;ll Reconsider

Note Ex Gave To Me With My Hoodie When I Asked For It Back

The Girl Who Shared This Was 16 And Pregnant, Btw

Girl I Used To Talk To, Glad I Dodged That Bullet A While Ago

A Wild Nice Girl Appears

Your Insecurity Is Showing

Why Do They Think It&rsquo;s Funny To Be Emotionally Abusive?

Nice Guy Comment On Nice Girl Post!

Facebook Trash

Ex-Friend Of Mine Shared This, She&rsquo;s Always Demonising Men Despite Being A Serial Cheater/Abusive

True Love

Dumped By Her Boyfriend Because She Slashed His Tires To Make Sure He Couldn’t Cheat On Her

The Classic &ldquo;All I Want In A Relationship Is Food And Praise&rdquo;

This Is Totally Socially Acceptable You Guys

We&rsquo;ve Got A Live One!

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