The probability of hitting thejackpotin a lottery, statistically, is very low. The possibility that this will happen at the time when you need it most is even less likely. And yet, the chances of that happening are never zero.
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There is probably no wrong time to win the lottery, but the timing can hardly be any more perfect than when it happens right before the birth of your child
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Everyone’s lives have their own ups and downs. But sometimes, there are those moments when everything aligns perfectly. John Stanhill and Victoria Oakley’s story is exactly that.
The couple was getting ready to welcome their firstborn child into this world when, one day, the boyfriend decided to randomly purchase a $50 scratch-offlotteryticket at a local gas station near Jacksonville Beach. Little did he know that his investment would soon change the couple’s life.
After finding out that they just won $1 million, the family couldn’t believe their luck. “This just couldn’t have happened at a better time!” Stanhill told theFlorida Lotterywhen he, his girlfriend Victoria, and their dog Maya came to receive their prizemoney, which amounted to $640,000 after taxes.
The commenters were very happy for the couple, with most making jokes about how, in the picture, their dog, Maya, looked happier about winning than John and Victoria themselves or simply congratulating them on their success and wishing them all the best moving forward.
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A women’s life coach and mother, Vanessa Marie, explained that while money can be a significant help, parenthood may also come with challenges that it can’t solve for you
While winning a lottery takes care of many worries, parenthood may still pose many different challenges that even money won’t completely solve for you. To talk about this and more,Bored Pandareached out toVanessa Marie, who is a women’s life coach and a mother of twins.
When discussing a lottery-winning scenario like the one that happened to John and Victoria, Vanessa agreed that money like that can absolutely be helpful, especially when it comes to enhancing a child’s education and providing parents the freedom to spend more time with them.
However, at the same time, money alone won’t build the lasting impact that comes from love, guidance, and personal connections forged along the way that shape a person’s character and resilience in life. “Children may not understand or recognize their family’s wealth in material terms, but they can perceive whether they are secure, loved, and supported.”
Additionally, the expert advised that parents should teach their children about finances and instill a healthy money mindset, especially regarding the importance of financial responsibility and planning for their own future. This type of understanding is essential for everyone, but while children from less wealthy families tend to learn it more naturally, the ones with a more fortunate background can easily overlook it, which can cause major problems down the road.
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“My journey into parenthood began with the challenge of infertility. We turned toIVF, a costly and emotionally taxing process to conceive our twins, who are now grown,” said Vanessa, sharing how one of her children was born with autism, which taught her an immense amount of patience and resilience.
The life coach explained that raising two children at once, especially when one has special needs, can be a lot, even if you’re not a first-time parent. However, overcoming such challenges provides you with a profound perspective on adjusting to your new identity, managing sleep deprivation, and navigating emotional highs and lows while remaining patient and understanding.
“I quickly learned that everyone has an opinion and that I just had to figure out as I went along with what felt right to me and the needs of my new family,” said the woman. She added how witnessing her children form their own personalities and achieve certain milestones and being able to cherish the strong bond that she and they now have made it all worth it.
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The expert added that children are unlikely to understand their family’s wealth, and the most important part is that they feel secure, loved, and supported
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It’s not wise to bet all of your dreams and hopes on some lottery. After all, for every winning gas station scratch-off ticket, there are millions of losing ones. And yet, if John Stanhill hadn’t bought one, we wouldn’t be talking about this story.
There’s nothing wrong with trying out yourluckevery once in a while. But in the end, while money can be an immense help, whether you’re raising children or not, life is about more than what’s in our bank account, and most would agree that we should always put that first.
The commenters were joyful for the happy couple, making jokes about how their dog seemed more excited about the prize than they were and wishing them all the best
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