Even though parents don’t know the exact moment when labor will begin, it’s important to have a plan in place for when it does. But according to one mom, her neighbors didn’t thoroughly consider where their children would go while they were at the hospital until it was too late. Below, you’ll find the full story that this mother recentlypostedon Reddit, as well as some of the replies readers have shared.
It’s important for expecting couples to have a detailed plan in place for when labor finally strikes
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Because when this mom awoke to neighbors banging on her door at 3am, she was not interested in watching their kids
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Most people know some of their neighbors, but that doesn’t mean they’re actually close
According to aPew Research Centersurvey, 57% of Americans say they know some of their neighbors, while only about a third say they know most of them. But about two thirds of those who do know their neighbors say they would be comfortable asking to leave a spare set of keys with them in case of an emergency. Being friends with those who live around you can be greatly beneficial in moments when you need another cup of sugar or a ride to a doctor’s appointment.
But justknowingyour neighbors does not mean you’re entitled to demand assistance from them at all hours of the day (or night).Problem Neighborsreports that the most common conflicts that arise between residents are over noise, boundary disputes, maintaining shared facilities, trees and gardens and issues with children. For example, kids may vandalize property, trespass, make too much noise, etc. And of course, they require proper supervision at all times.
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Childcare for older siblings is an important factor for parents to consider before giving birth
Being a parent requires constant planning, especially when you’re expecting another addition to your family some time soon. Prior to going into labor,Northwestern Medicinesays couples must have their gear ready (usually a hospital bag packed full of essentials), know the first signs of labor, know when it’s time to go to the hospital, recognize red flags, and have a plan but be flexible.
And it’s always wise to have a plan B and C just in case the labor happens unexpectedly. Unfortunately, most hospitals do not offer on-site childcare to patients, so parents must consider the best options for their children before the big birthday arrives.
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Some readers took the mother’s side, and she joined in on the conversation
Others continued assuring the mom that she had done nothing wrong
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