Bullying is a pervasive issue that affects millions of school students around the world
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The author shared how they sought revenge on a bully from school
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Impact of bullying on school kids
For many of us,school dayswere a mix of learning, growth, and enjoyment. It was the place where we gained knowledge about the world, had countless fun lunches with classmates, participated in events like sports days, and made creative projects that sometimes ended in glitter explosions. And let’s not forget the entertaining talent shows.
However, for kids who arebulliedin school, their experience is not the same. Being bullied has a big mental and emotional impact on children. It makes them feel constantly insecure. They are so worried that someone might torment them that they are always on guard and cautious. They aren’t even able to peacefully walk in the corridors of the educational institute.
Compared to girls (5%), guys (8%) are more likely to engage in this behavior. It is more common for boys to get into violent altercations. They might end up punching or kicking other kids in their class. Such forms of physical aggression usually occur in places with less supervision, like playgrounds and hallways.
Conversely, girls might engage in social exclusion as a form of bullying. They deliberately leave someone out of group activities to isolate them. They mightgossipand spread rumors about their shy peers to spoil their reputation. However, when it comes to being bullied, gender doesn’t play a role. Approximately 11% of girls and boys have been bullied at school.
Dealing with school bullies
You can also benefit from attending self-defense classes, as it makes you feel stronger and more confident. It’s also important to keep a record of such instances, including dates, times, locations, and descriptions of the events. This will come in handy when you report their behavior.
If you’re a mom or dad whose child is being bullied, you need to approach the topic with the utmost care and sensitivity. As parents, it’s crucial to have an open and supportive relationship with your child. For instance, you should talk to them about their school experiences and encourage them to share any issues they face. You can help your kid report the bullying to school authorities.
Manyschoolshave a zero-tolerance policy for bullying in order to create a safe environment for kids. They even offercounselingservices to ensure bullies receive appropriate behavioral interventions. Another thing that can prove helpful is making it easy for students to report bullying anonymously. Educational institutes even conduct workshops and seminars to create awareness about bullying.
Through collective action, we can create a more positive educational experience for students. Standing up against people who bully you requires a lot of guts. In this case, the author stood up for themselves and took matters into their own hands. What are your thoughts on this incident?
Many people applauded the author’s courage to stand up for themselves
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