One recent high school graduate had a rude awakening when she turned to her mom for help with her upcoming university fees, only to find out the entire fund had been spent. Her mom explained why she only had herself to blame, but asked netizens if that was a jerk move.

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After falsely accusing her mom’s new husband of inappropriate behavior, her mom had to pay for an expensive divorce

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When she was in her teens, she got expelled twice, forcing her mom to shell out more money for a pricey private school

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Now that she’s graduating, she asked her mom about the money in her university fund, but her mom explained to her it had all been spent raising her as a single, divorced parent

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The daughter now realizes she only really has herself and the childish actions of her past to blame for her predicament

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To add insult to injury, her mom has also let her know that she won’t be cosigning her loans

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Knowing that her daughter would now need to take out a loan, the mom turned to netizens to ask if telling her the hard truth was a jerk move

When her daughter was 11, OP met and married her newhusband, something she thought her daughter was OK with since she’d never mentioned anything otherwise, even intherapy. Two years later, though, she accused the stepdad of inappropriate behavior, leading to him being arrested and losing his job.

Well, the couple gotdivorcedand OP says she punished her daughter, which led to her acting out and being expelled from two schools. OP’s only solution was to send her to an expensive privateschoolthat she’s graduating from soon. When the topic of university fees came up, though, her daughter was in for a shock.

OP broke down how the university fund had been spent over the years, taking into account the expensive divorce, private school, and the rising cost of raising a child as a singleparent. Her daughter got all kinds of upset, prompting OP to ask netizens if she was a jerk for exposing the hard truth.

It would seem highly likely that OP’s daughter is going to have to take out a studentloan. If you’re a student, you can probably relate. But just what is the state of America’s student debt crisis? We went looking for answers.

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In his article forForbes, Robert Farrington writes that, collectively, students and families are borrowing way too much money for degrees that don’t always have the best return on investment.

One of the biggest factors forcing students to borrow more is the rising cost of attendance, plus the cost of room and board. CollegeBoarddataindicates that for the 2023-2024 academic year, average in-state costs to attend a public four-year institution came in at $11,260. This is $270 higher than the 2022-2023 year.

According to the Education Data Initiativewebsite, in 2024,US citizens owed a total of $1.75 trillion in federal and private student loan debt combined, and federal student loan debt alone totaled $1.62 trillion. What’s more, the cost of college attendance has increased at an annual rate of 6.8%, a growth rate 196.2% faster than currency inflation and 89.2% faster than wage inflation.

With the skyrocketing price of going to university and the low chance of landing a lucrative job once you graduate, it’s no wonder OP’s daughter is having a hard time dealing with the consequences of her angry actions.

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