Complicated relationships can’t get any better until all the people involved make an effort to fix what’s broken. In parent and child relationships, the onus should be on the adults to make things right for their kids. But that isn’t always the case, and neglectfulparentsare usually the first to point fingers instead of taking responsibility.
This is what a teen faced when he had to choose between being with his dying cat or attending his dad’swedding. He told people all about his dad’s meltdown.
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Neglectful father loses his temper at his son who skipped attending his fourth wedding to be there for his childhood cat who was being euthanized
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Teen shared that his parents got divorced when he was 7 and since then, his dad barely made any effort to visit him, to the extent of even forgetting his birthday
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The boy’s childhood cat was being put down on the day of his dad’s 4th wedding so he decided not to go and clarified that he had attended the other 2 weddings
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After the son said he didn’t want his dad to visit anyone, his father reminded him of his visitation rights, which, the poster pointed out, didn’t apply anymore as he had turned 18
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The teen also clarified that his mom didn’t deliberately schedule the euthanasia appointment on his dad’s wedding day, it was just the earliest appointment available for their cat
The Original Poster (OP) mentioned that his parents got divorced when he was only 7 years old. Even though his dad had visitation rights, he would only make an effort to see his son once a week. After that, the visits became less frequent and sometimes only happened once a month. The boy shared that his father cared so little that he did not even remember his birthday.
The teen then told netizens that his childhood cat was being put down and that his mother had scheduled the euthanasia appointment. Unfortunately, it fell on the same day as his dad’s wedding. People felt that she had deliberately chosen that date for the appointment, but the teen clarified that it was the only day available for them to get the appointment for theircat.
A study on the mental health of kids who experienced apet’s deathfound that it could lead to intense mental distress and depression for three or more years after losing the animal. Research states that the strong emotional attachment to the pet is the reason for such intense feelings. In this case, the teen might have already been struggling with the death of his childhood cat when his dad decided to pile on him.
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The poster mentioned that even though he told his dad that he wouldn’t be able to attend his wedding, his father berated him over the phone. He kept shouting at the kid and told him not to choose his cat over him. But the boy stated that he had already been to his dad’s 2nd and 3rd weddings and did not feel like it was a “big deal” if he missed the 4th.
Research on the death of pets has found that “whileeuthanasiahas been mentioned as both a unique and controversial practice with regard to pets, playing an active role in the termination of a pet’s life may cause distress, guilt, and depression in the pet owner.” While dealing with all of these complicated feelings, the boy also had to deal with his father’s anger.
Since his dad kept getting angry, the boy lost his cool and told him that if he continued to be a jerk, he shouldn’t visit anymore. The teen said that he had turned 18 six months ago and that technically, the father’svisitation rightsdid not apply anymore. He also mentioned that if his dad cared so little, he should not visit at all.
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