Bullyingis a serious problem in schools. You can fight to reduce its impact, but it still manages to rear its ugly head from time to time. Sometimes, all it takes is a single item of clothing for yourclassmatesto start making fun of you.
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One dad sent his young son to school wearing a dress
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He shared what happened next in a viral internet post
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Parents need to be aware of how their decisions can impact their children’s safety
So long as a student’s outfit matches the school’sdress codeand regulations, they should be allowed to wear whatever they like. Or, in the case of younger students, whatever it is that their parents pick out for them.
Putting on a dress when you’re male shouldn’t be a big deal—it’s an item of clothing like anything else. But in many places around the world, even in progressive countries, it can cause a lot of outcry. That’s the reality of the situation.
Or, to put it bluntly: even in the most progressive places on the planet, you’ll still find that some kids and adultsare meanto anyone who’s even slightly different than everyone else. It’s human nature to judge others. Self-expression and identity are very important, but you also have to weigh that against the safety of your child.
Kids need to know that their parents are there to support them, no matter what
One redditor had a very nuanced take on the situation. “I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a boy wearing a dress, and neither do you, which is great, but you should have realized that letting him walk into school like that was a recipe for disaster,” u/CassowaryCrow wrote.
“Most people do not think a guy should wear a dress, and that includes little kids, who can and will be cruel. Hopefully, the other kids will forget about it in a month or so, but for now, your son is going to face some taunting when he gets to school.”
Many schools want to be inclusive and protect their students, so they create policies to stop bullying and teach everyone to be more tolerant of others’ choices. While this does work to a certain extent, some students simply become more subtle in how they bully others. Or they learn to cover their tracks better.
For some bullies, lashing out at others is a way to feel better about themselves and the events going on in their lives. Others might bully their fellow students as a way to reclaim control that they’ve lost at home or in class. Some kids might want to hurt their classmates in a way that they themselves have been hurt.
While many people can empathize with these situations, it still doesn’t excuse bullying. It should not happen. Period. But so long as it does, it falls to adults to step in instead of ignoring the situation or avoiding responsibility.
Teachers ought to protect their students as best as they can. Meanwhile, parents ought to talk to their children about building up someconfidenceand emotional resilience while also stressing the importance of being proud of who they are.
It’s vital that your kids know that you are there tosupport themand that you’ll always hear them out, no matter what.
Various internet users had very different takes on the situation. Some folks were fully on the dad’s side
However, many others thought that the dad could have handled everything in a more delicate manner
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