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Many of us have things that we love to collect and it would hurt us to see our prized possessions given away. A mom went viral afteraskinginternet users for their input regarding an argument she had with her sister. The sibling wanted her niece’s rare backpack as a gift for her new boyfriend’s daughter, and got told ‘no,’ which caused a lot of frustration on all sides. Read on for the full story.Meanwhile,Bored Pandareached out to the author via Reddit for an update. We’ll update the post as soon as we hear back from her.

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A mom asked the internet for advice after her a family argument got out of hand over her daughter’s rare backpack

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If you’re a serious collector, some of these backpacks can set you back hundreds of dollars because they’re so rare

Being a collector can be expensive. According to Inside the Magic, someLoungeflybackpacks can costhundreds of dollars. For instance, the Disney Club 33 Emerald 55th Anniversary backpack can set you back around $249 but has been known to cost as much as $800 on eBay.

The Disney Club 33 Haunted Mansion backpack, on the other hand, will set you back as much as $450 on eBay. The Disney Blue Sequin Peter Pan backpack falls in a similar range, costing roughly $500 if you’re a die-hard collector. And if you’re a fan of Nightmare Before Christmas, the Zero Crossbody Bag can be bought for nearly $400 online.

Though at first glance it sounds peculiar to collect something like backpacks, the reality is that many of you probably have collections or fandoms that you deeply love. Some activities like collecting stamps or coins might be more popular, but at its core, this is no different than liking backpacks, shoes, postcards, miniatures, cars, video games, or wine bottle corks from a hundred different vintages.

The point is that you have a person who is passionate about a specific niche (or multiple niches). They want to expand their collection, talk about their hobbies with other like-minded people, and keep an eye out for rare items, new releases, and limited editions.

It can be a ton of fun to immerse yourself in one specific area, and it’s fine, so long as you keep a balance in your life. People are, after all, more than just collectors. You need to remind yourself from time to that other things are important too, from your relationships and health to your vocation and creative endeavors.

Loungefly presents itself as being accessible to both casual fans and collectors, providing them with “unique designs that tell a story and allow you to show off what you love every day through your wardrobe.”

The company sells officially licensed apparel and accessories, which makes it a good fit for many fans, including lovers of all thingsDisney. It also doesn’t hurt that many of their designs, well, simply look good.

Sister Demands To Get Niece’s Rare Bag: “Financial Issues Due To Her Lifestyle Habits”

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Many people collect things, but some folks can feel envious that others have items that they can’t get

However, if you search the internet, a common complaint among some commenters is that these backpacks can get incredibly expensive if they’re no longer being officially sold. That means that people have to look for other online vendors and resellers if they want a particular model or character.

Objectively speaking, it’s not like anyone has to get their hands on a particular backpack to be happy in life. There are lots of other experiences and relationships in life that you can focus on instead. Life can be good regardless of what you’ve accumulated: who you spend your time with and how matters more than what you buy and keep.

However, it would be unfair to demand that someone give away a part of their beloved collection, to which they’re attached emotionally. If someone’s forcing you to do something, it’s not charity.

Furthermore, it speaks volumes about someone’s values that they feel entitled to someone else’s property at the drop of a hat. If you’re demanding a prized possession from someone, the least you can do is orchestrate a meeting between that person and the one you want to give the backpack to. It can feel bizarre to help someone out whom you haven’t even met, at great cost to you. There needs to be some sort of burgeoning personal relationship there.

Sister Demands To Get Niece’s Rare Bag: “Financial Issues Due To Her Lifestyle Habits”

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Many readers were very supportive of the woman. Here’s their take on the family drama

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However, not everyone was on the same page. Some folks were much more critical of the mom

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