Most of us would do just about anything to help ourfamily. But is there a limit to how far we should be expected to go?
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Addiction has a serious impact on families
Family can be one of our greatest sources of security and support, so it’s incredibly difficult to see a loved one struggle withaddiction, as the woman in the Reddit story did, and feel powerless to help.
According toAlberta Health Services, when one family member struggles with substance abuse, the entire family often develops ways to cope. Often, there is less communication, as the family tends to avoid talking about the issue or hide their feelings. Many families try to keep the addiction a secret from others. Some members might even take on extra responsibilities that the person with the addiction has neglected or offer financial support.
Substance abuse can also cause tension and frequent arguments between family members. They might feel a mix of emotions like loneliness, frustration, fear, or guilt as they try to deal with their loved one’s addiction. Over time, they may even start to believe that the situation is hopeless.
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One of the most concerning effects of addiction is that it can be passed down to other family members, particularly children. According toCurrent Drug Abuse Reviews, children who grow up in homes where one or more adults abuse alcohol or drugs are about twice as likely to develop addiction issues themselves. They are also three times more likely to suffer physical, sexual, and emotionalabuse.
What’s most important in helping people recover from addiction is offering support without judgment.Researchshows that many people with substance abuse issues hesitate to seek help because they fear disappointing others, losing the secrecy of their addiction, or being seen as a failure.
By creating a caring and understanding environment, we can make sure those dealing with addiction feel safe reaching out for the resources they need to get better.
Most commenters supported the woman, agreeing that she shouldn’t be forced to raise her niece
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