We have all probably heard the tales of people hiding theirtattoosfrom their parents, usually because they know that their parents won’t agree with this kind of body decoration and they simply just don’t want to hear lectures about it. Yet, some people decide to risk showing tattoos to their folks, and some parents decide to react to it in a different way than expected.

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How should a parent react to a seemingly meaningless tattoo that their child gets?

Young man with tattoos on arms and neck, wearing a black tank top, sitting against a corrugated metal wall.

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The author doesn’t like that tattoos have become mainstream and people are apparently getting plenty of tattoos that have no deeper meanings

Tattoo resembling a tribal design on a person’s arm, with chair and desk in the background.

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So, when their son got a tribal armband tattoo, which, in the author’s eyes, had no meaning, they got the same one tatted to make the son ashamed

Yet, this didn’t stop tattoos from slowly integrating themselves into fashion andpopular culture. It was mainly due to the fact that variouscelebritiesstarted getting them, making tattooed bodies more prevalent in the media.

And with the rise of tattoo popularity, more people started getting them without real meanings, just for fun or as a way to decorate their bodies, which the OP really doesn’t like. So, when their son expressed a wish to get a tattoo, they warned him to get a meaningful one. And that if he didn’t, they would get a copy of his tattoo for themselves as a lesson.

The son didn’t take their parent’s threat seriously, and they went on and got atribal armbandtattoo. This kind of design, as the name suggests, wraps around a person’s arm like a band. There are plenty of types of tribal tattoos, like Polynesian, Maori tribal, and music tribal, to mention a few.

Young man in casual attire with skateboard, sitting by a fence, reflecting on personal tattoo experience.

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Even though today’s original poster assumed that his son’s tribal armband tattoo didn’t really have any deep meaning, it doesn’t mean that all of these tattoos are meaningless.For example, tribal armbands, for some, can mean a personal connection to their Indigenous roots. Solid armbands can represent the loss of a loved one. At the same time, it can also simply be a tattoo that is nice enough for a person to get as a decoration for their body and doesn’t carry any serious sentiment.

From theinformationthat we’re given in the Reddit post, we can assume that the son got the tattoo because it looked cool to him. But what we know for sure is that this type of reasoning seemed meaningless to the OP.So, they kept their promise and got the same tattoo as their son. Now, the 19-year-old isn’t as excited to show off his body art, which made him call his parent a jerk.

This prompted the parent to write a post on Reddit to ask if they actually are thejerkfor doing it. And what the internet users decided was that, yes, they were a jerk. They pointed out that getting a tattoo just to prove a point about meaningless tattoos was not only stupid but a contradicting lesson as well.

This made the son call their parent a jerk, and people online fully agreed with this sentiment

Reddit comment criticizing a parent for copying their 19-year-old son’s tattoo to prove a point.

Text comment saying a tattoo shows a petty and toxic person, with the commenter calling the parent toxic.

Comment discussing parent’s decision to copy 19-year-old son’s tattoo for a lesson, calling it silly and questioning the point.

Comment on Reddit calling a parent a jerk for copying their son’s tattoo to prove a point.

Comment questioning a person’s stance on self-expression with tattoos, asking about prior statement.

“Reddit comment thread discussing disposable income and time, related to a parent copying son’s tattoo.

Tattoo artist in a studio, focused on creating a tattoo design on a client’s arm, showing detailed tattoo equipment.

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Reddit comment criticizing a parent for copying their 19-year-old son’s tattoo to make a point.

Screenshot of a Reddit comment criticizing a parent for copying a 19-year-old son’s tattoo.

Comment criticizing a parent for copying a 19-year-old son’s tattoo to prove a point.

“Comment criticizing parent copying 19-year-old son’s tattoo, calling it hypocritical and unnecessary.

Comment discussing copying son’s tattoo to prove a point, addressing issues with matching tattoos.

Comment criticizing a parent for copying son’s tattoo, calling it cringy and expressing sympathy for the son.

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