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Text describes a babysitter agreeing to a last-minute favor but facing issues with pay and expectations.

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Text about a babysitter doing a favor but getting paid less than promised for a full day of work.

Babysitter unsure about accepting last-minute favor after being underpaid; questioning future agreements.

So, they did that. They went the extra mile and put the groceries away. It was a long nine hours, but it seemed like things were going smoothly. At the end of the day, the mom texted saying the OP could drop off thekids.

Babysitter in a striped shirt feeling stressed, agreeing to do more than promised with less pay.

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Building on this, declining last-minute requests takes a balance of being firm and polite, according toHuddles. Responses need to be crystal clear, with no room for  misinterpretation, and they need to convey empathy, recognizing that the refusal will cause inconvenience or disappointment.

They also advise providing some details as to why therequestis being declined. This way, it seems more believable and sincere because you are providing a brief explanation about your unavailability. In addition, letting them know what they can do differently might be helpful against next time.

They also urged the OP to stand firm, and emphasized the importance of communication and setting boundaries to avoid being taken advantage of.

What would you do if you were in the OP’s situation? Do you think they should agree to watch the kids again, or is it better to politely decline? We would love to hear your thoughts!

Netizens encouraged them to refuse the offer, stand firm, and collect the $50 they are already short of

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