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The author of the post and her fiance recently tied the knot – and they had invited all their friends long beforehand
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There was another couple invited where the woman was pregnant – and they were in doubts over showing up, but vowed to do their best
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The guy politely answered that they would be ‘a bit busy’ that day – but the new dad was very insistent
However, as the bride herself reminisces, every one of their friends invited really showed up at the reception
So, the Original Poster (OP) and her husband recentlytied the knot, and on the eve of their wedding, this story actually happened. More like a joke – and yet, completely real. The author and her husband have a group of friends with whom they hang out, organize joint celebrations – I guess everyone has this.
And so, long before the wedding date, at a joint meeting, the couple officially invited everyone present – and everyone, of course, promised that they would show up. Among the guests was another couple, where the wife was pregnant, and the birth was expected a couple of months after the wedding date.
The OP spoke with the mom-to-be in advance that she and her fiance would understand everything and wouldn’t be offended if she could not attend. After all, in the late stages of pregnancy, it might be better to just stay at home. That woman also said that she would try to come, but formedical reasonsshe might not show up – but her spouse would definitely want to be there, since he’s a close friend of the groom.
Shortly before the wedding, our heroine asked her fiance again if he had heard any news from this couple – and he said that he had contacted them. There were several medical visits planned, and the wife had confirmed she definitely would not come, but the husband was not sure yet. However, everything, as always, can change at the last moment ..
The groom-to-be immediately respondedsarcasticallyin the chat that he would be a little busy that day, because he was, well, getting married. But what surprised the couple even more was that the guy tried to insist to the last – maybe the bride would somehow be able to come to their party?
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Apparently, the second couple gave birth earlier than planned, but, nevertheless, everything went well. Perhaps this could be the reason for the confusion with the dates, supposes Irina Matveeva, apsychologistand certified NLP specialist, with whomBored Pandagot in touch for a comment here.
“Be that as it may, even in such a situation, it is still worth postponing the event that is planned later. After all, you are not only putting the organizers of the first event in an awkward position, but also forcing all mutual friends and acquaintances to make a difficult choice here,” Irina says.
“I find it much more likely that they simply forgot when the wedding was,” another person added quite reasonably. And which point of view do you, our dear readers, lean more toward?
Some commenters say that it was rude on the other couple’s side, but other folks presume they just forgot about their friends’ wedding
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