Disability is not something that people choose to have, and having compassion for disabled people is the least that you can do to make them feel equal. Unfortunately, not everyone is wise enough to understand how to treat them, and they end up—knowingly or unknowingly—being ableist.
So was Reddit usersalesmansellout, who got angry when a disabled man refused to move for her and her daughter to sit on the bus. And in her anger, she even made her kid stand up during the entire journey to their stop.
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On the bus, there were no other seats available except for one next to a disabled man who was sitting in his wheelchair
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As she wanted to sit with her daughter, the poster asked the disabled man to move to another spot, but he refused
The poster was so furious at the refusal that she made her daughter stand for the rest of the journey along with her
In today’s story, the Reddit community slammed the original poster (OP) for herableist behavior. What happened was that she was traveling on a bus with her 5-year-old daughter. All the seats were occupied except for one next to a disabled man who was sitting in a wheelchair. The poster wanted herkidto sit with her, so she thought it was okay to ask the man to move.
But, of course, it wasn’t okay, as it would have been a total hassle for themanto move. And after all, he had every right to occupy that particular space, so it was but natural for him to refuse. But OP still pushed for it, claiming that her daughter was young so needed to sit with her for safety reasons.
Well, the man refused again and sparked the poster’s fury. In fact, she was so frustrated that she made herdaughterstand with her for the rest of the journey and stated that it was “uncomfortable and tiring”. However, when she narrated the incident to her friend, she got a slap of reality as herfriendsaid that she was being insensitive and an ableist.
To get expert insights,Bored PandainterviewedGazala Khan, a trainee counselor at an NGO,New Morning. She said, “Lack of empathy can contribute to such behavior, as the individual might not fully appreciate or consider the impact of their request on others. Also, such behavior may stem as normal to them because of their past experiences where all their demands were met without being questioned.”
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Some folks also called out her entitled behavior as she made it sound like standing for some time was a tragedy. They emphasized the fact that people like OP have to develop more sensitivity when it comes to the needs of disabled people.
According to Gazala, “This kind of unconscious bias leads to stereotypes about disability, which can further result in a lack of awareness or sensitivity towards the needs and challenges of people with disabilities. Implicit bias can perpetuate inequality and reduce the likelihood of empathetic and equitable interactions.”
“Sometimes, able-bodied individuals might undervalue the importance of accessibility or fail to recognize the specific accommodations that are necessary for those with disabilities,” she added.
When we asked her about how important it is to educate the public about the rights and needs of individuals with disabilities, she mentioned that it’s highly important. She believes that this will promote inclusion and feelings of empathy to fight the stigma attached to it.
She advised that it can be taught to the public through educational awareness campaigns, showcasing and promoting positive representation to normalize their presence and challenges.
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