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Twins have a special bond; thus inviting one and not the other is extremely rude and hurtful for both of them
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Mom shares that her 5 Y.O. has trouble reading and on the bathrooms it was just written ‘men’ and ‘women’, so one weekend, he accidentally walked in on one girl’s mom
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After he came back, telling his mom that he was embarrassed, she assured him that it’s not a big deal, but the woman he opened the door on insisted that he needs to be punished as it’s inappropriate
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Well, after a few days, the woman’s daughter was giving out birthday invites and gave one to one twin, but not the other
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Mom is livid as holding that much of a grudge against a 5 Y.O. is insane and she is considering calling the other mom to confront her about the whole situation
He accidentally walked in on a woman, the mother of a little girl who is the twins’ peer. He said sorry and immediately ran away to his mom. She assured him that it’s not a big deal. However, the woman had a different opinion. She came up to OP saying that the boy needs to be punished as there’s no way that he can’t read like her daughter can.
Well, one day, that woman’s daughter was handing out invites to her birthday party and one twin got an invite while the other didn’t. The boys asked why and were told that the girl’s mother said not to give it to Jude. OP shares that she’s livid as giving an invite to only one of the twins is rude and passive-aggressive and it’s ridiculous to hold such a grudge against a 5-year-old kid.
Community members backed up the author and gave her the ‘Not the A-hole’ badge in this situation, discussing how even adults who can read accidentally walk into the wrong bathrooms. “I feel like the mom is embarrassed she forgot to lock the door and is projecting the blame on the poor kid so she doesn’t feel foolish,” one user wrote. “The fact the woman thinks a kid should be punished for what pretty clearly was an accident says a lot,” another added.
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Now, while parents may have different approaches on disciplinary methods or values, Samantha notes that open communication is paramount in difficult situations with other parents. “I’ve had my own share of troubles with navigating confusing signals and actions from other parents, and have not always come out clear on where they stand. But I try to stay above the fray, and act in a way that demonstrates mature behavior for my kids.”
Also, she emphasizes that she believes kids should not be punished for their parents’ actions. Well, unless there is a situation where you are forced to depend on that troublesome parent for something you don’t believe they can follow through on.
Finally, sometimes parents want to ‘win’ some fight that they have with others and don’t care about any lines. Samantha shares that kids are always watching their parents, for better or worse. “We need to be aware of this while interacting with other parents. By simply going through our days and regular social interactions, our kids are learning from us.”
Redditors shamed the girl’s mother and her behavior towards the kid
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