Different generations tackle parenting differently, but some approaches can endanger a child’s safety
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A couple confronted the husband’s mother and gave her an earful
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Some approaches from boomer-era parenting are now outdated
If you are a parent, chances are you might have clashed with your mom and dad about how to raise kids. For instance, back in the day, some folks were stingy while praising their children, as they believed it would make them egoistic. So, if you came in second in a race, instead of applause, you were asked to try harder and secure the first position. In such cases, one had to work really hard to earn their boomer parents’ appreciation.
Theboomer generationrefers to individuals born between 1946 and 1964, which means they are possibly grandparents now. However, many couples that belong toGen Xor Gen Y believe that positive reinforcement and encouragement are important for building their little one’s self-esteem and confidence. People try to celebrate their little achievements to show that it’s the effort that counts.
In boomer-era parenting, traditional gender roles were quite prevalent. Boys were often encouraged to focus on ‘manly’ sports. They were expected to be tough and stoic. On the other hand, girls were presumed to be nurturing and compliant. Over the years, these stereotypes have been challenged, and children are motivated to explore their interests regardless of gender.
Another important shift that happened was the outlook onmental health. Previous generations often overlooked the fact that children might be struggling with anxiety, depression, or other challenges. Over the years, awareness about the importance of mental health has increased, encouraging moms and dads to provide children with the support they need to thriveemotionally.
If your child hasn’t completed their school work, you can ask them what’s wrong and try to help them finish the assignment. Associetal valuesabout parenting have shifted over time, it has led to a change in the way parents raise kids today. What was considered effective decades ago may no longer be acceptable due to new approaches that are less harmful.
Many couples in the US follow their mom and dad’s parenting style
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At the same time, 44% are taking an entirely different approach when it comes to parenthood. Their approach included having open and honest conversations with their children about anything and everything. They believe that this helps the kids to discuss things on their minds freely without fear of being judged.
Individuals with a different approach also pointed out how they give their sons and daughters more love than what they received growing up. They don’t hold back while showingaffectionfor their kids. Saying ‘I love you’ or ‘Take care; I miss you’ is a common practice for them.
Irrespective of your parents approach, there are times you will rely on your loved ones to take care of your kids. But do you think it’s acceptable for friends and family to reinforce their questionable techniques, like not using a car seat, on your child? How would you handle this situation? Tell us about a boomer parenting approach that you don’t like or agree with.
Folks online shared similar instances of some wild parenting methods
People were not pleased with the grandmother’s irresponsible behavior
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