No matter how enviable our good health may be, sooner or later we still make acquaintances with doctors andhospitals. And this, just agree, is a whole separate world, with its own rules, habits and ways, written and unwritten. And these ‘ways’ do not always look reasonable to us.
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The author of the post is a dad of a 9-year-old boy who recently had his appendix removed in the hospital
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The kid’s relatives, including his mom (the author’s ex), her sister and niece, were waiting in the recovery room
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The boy was in the hospital gown only, so he asked his dad and elder brother to help him get dressed
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However, when the man asked all the females present to go out of the room, it bewildered them
The female nurse even started a quarrel with the dad but he was adamant in standing up for his son’s privacy
So, the Original Poster (OP) says that recently his 9-year-old son “Loren” was taken to the hospital where he had his appendix removed. The operation was successful, and the boy behaved well.Relatives– including the author’s ex – Loren’s mom, her sister and 13 year-old niece, and the OP’s 18 year-old son as well, waited in the recovery room.
After the operation, relatives were invited to visit the boy when he recovered from anesthesia. Loren was wearing nothing but a hospital gown, made almost entirely of paper, and he asked his dad and older brother to help him get dressed. Simply because it was uncomfortable for a 9-year-old boy to be naked in front of 3 females. Four, if counting a female nurse.
But when the original poster asked all females present to go out, they reacted to the request as if it was something incredibly outrageous. And the most indignant seemed to be afemale nurse, who, like a pro linebacker, almost tried to break through to Loren to change his clothes herself.
As a result of a short-term quarrel, the father still managed to defend his son’s right to purely male assistance when changing clothes, but the next day his ex called him and demanded an apology. Our hero, however, objected that if Loren was a girl, then she’d perhaps have a very different opinion.
Moreover, when the father and son arrived at the hospital a couple of days later for a re-examination, Loren again asked a male nurse to help him – and this caused a new surge of surprise in the head nurse. However, the male nurse finally showed up – and in a private conversation he said that such situations often happen, and his female colleagues very often take it personally.
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“Usually, medical personnel do not distinguish regarding the gender of patients and nurses and doctors – unless, of course, the opposite is specifically stated,” says Iryna Stasiuk,an expertin syndromic therapy from Odesa, Ukraine, whomBored Pandaasked for a comment here. “However, if the patient or their parents declare that they need a nurse of the same gender, then the situation is completely different.”
“Your exalso needs to lighten up. Your son is reaching the age where he isn’t going to want his mom seeing him naked anymore. It’s developmentally appropriate for him to seek more independence. She needs to let him grow,” the responder added quite reasonably. And what do you, our dear readers, actually think about this story?
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