Unfortunately, not allrelationshipsare able to stand the test of time; often even after partners promise to have and to hold each other until the end of their days.
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Unfortunately, many relationships fail to stand the test of time
This man, a dad of two, decided to end his marriage before his wife beat him to it
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Many couples decide to go their separate ways over time, but many of them find love again, too
Some studiessuggest that as many as 41% of first marriages end in divorce, and there can be hundreds of different reasons why, some more dramatic than others.Researchfound that the most commonly reported major contributors to people going their separate ways are lack of commitment, infidelity, and conflict or arguing, while the most prevalent “final straw” moments reportedly entail infidelity, domestic violence, and substance use.
In the OP’s case, the reasons why his wife wanted a divorce weren’t clear; all he shared with fellow redditors was that his now soon-to-be ex-wife wanted out of the marriage as soon as she made a change in her career.
Taking certain actions can make it easier to cope with significant changes in life
Even a change in one’s career can require quite some time adjusting to, not to mention going through something as life-changing as adivorce. But many divorced people find love for the second or the third time, sometimes even more times after that. According to a Pew Research Center’sstudy, as of 2013, close to a third (29%) of previously married adults aged 18 to 24 had remarried, and roughly two-thirds (67%) of people aged 55 to 64 had said “I do” for the second time.
While there are certainchangesin life—for better or worse—we have no control over, we can control the way we react to them or behave when they occur. Talking about ways to cope with big changes in life ina piecefor Psychology Today, the best-selling author and therapist, Dr. Stephanie A. Sarkis, suggested taking ten steps to make the transition easier:
While coping with big changes in life usually takes time, taking certain measures can help make it easier—even if just a little bit—be it a change in one’s career or relationship.
Many people didn’t think the man was a jerk in the situation
Some, however, shared a different opinion
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