And, of course, because there are actually a lot of similar stories. Although, in some situations, this is rather a violation of the “treat others the way you would like others to treat you” principle. Okay, let’s do it this way – you read this story from theuser u/EnvironmentalPea5652, and then decide for yourself whether this is karma or just entitlement. Or maybe both…
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The author of the post has been married to a woman with a teen daughter for the last 4 years
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Alas, the teen has always treated the stepdad badly – for no fault of his
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She always tried to emphasize that he’s not her dad, and even played evil pranks on him
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The girl flip-flopped her attitude towards the stepdad later, as she wanted him to cover her college fees
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However, the man stayed strong, claiming that he owes nothing to her now
So here we have the Original Poster (OP), a 48-year-old man who has beenmarriedto a woman with a teen daughter for the last 4 years. And, despite all the stepfather’s attempts to get ongood termswith the stepdaughter, she never took him seriously at all. Although the author, in his own words, really tried to make friends with her.
In general, it all ended with the man simply stopping reacting to attacks from his stepdaughter, trying to minimize communication with her. Moreover, the time was approaching when she would leave for college…
That’s it! I think you already get what the main plot twist of this narrative is! Yes, that’s right – one fine day the teen approached her stepdad and, as if nothing had happened between them, asked for help with paying hercollege fees, because her beloved bio dad had already refused to do this.
Well, the original poster refused as well, saying that it’s not his business now. Neither the girl’s numerous pleas, as she claimed that ‘he’s affecting her education,’ nor the admonitions of his wife helped. Yes, the OP’s spouse also said that she thinks her husband is doing something wrong. However, the author still remained relentless, although he decided to ask for advice online anyway.
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At the same time, the tuition at a private nonprofit four-year university was $39,400. With room and board, supplies and other expenses, that total rose to $57,570. In other words, the stepdaughter expected the original poster to really fork out ahefty amount– and given the way she had treated him in the last four years, he had to be the standard of philanthropy and humility to pay.
Our hero is obviously a mere mortal, with all the shortcomings inherent in us. Or the advantages – it actually depends from what angle you look at it. At least, we recently told anothersimilar tale, and there the stepmom also refused to help a hostile teen with her college tuition. But there the woman had an inheritance from her late husband, and the stepdaughter didn’t play such harsh pranks on her, as this girl used to.
And indeed, according to some commenters, it’s one thing to make evil jokes about a stepdad, and quite another – to expect financial help from him. “Tell her you can’t afford it on your servant’s wages,” another commenter wrote wittily. Well, to paraphrase Morpheus from the Matrix movie, “Welcome to adult life!” So what do you, our dear readers, think here – how right or wrong was the stepdad in this particular situation?
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