Election season always comes with its selection of drama, but certain years are just worse than others. So it seems like every few years, people have to again ask themselves, is howsomeonevotes enough to cut them off?
A manaskedif he was overreacting when he wanted to uninvite his parents from his swearing-in ceremony after they voted for Trump. As a bi-man, he felt that this was too much for him to accept.We reached out to the man who shared the story via private message and will update the article when he gets back to us.
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Accepting someone despite their politics can feel like it’s being harder and harder to do
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So one man turned to the internet for advice after he considered not inviting his parents over who they voted for
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He later gave some clarifications
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Election season is often a tough time at the family dinner table
There are families or perhaps groups of friends that have strict rules tonot discusstopics like money, politics and religion at the dinner table. However, it’s important to note that this doesn’t mean one should always be “blind” to someone’s politics in the name of “keeping the peace.” There is nothing wrong with some boundaries.
However, what these boundaries look like and how they are enforced is a question that is a lot harder to answer. After all, no matter what some pundits try to tell you, the reasons people vote are often a bit more complicated than some make it seem. So this muddles the waters, as “why” someone voted a certain way can be just as important of a question as “how” they voted.
If this man decides that he is going to have to explain himself, there are a number of ways one can make that conversation easier. American scientistDavid Bohmsuggested treating dialogue as a way to learn more about the other person, not to convince. It’s worth noting that this could mean learning things that ultimately might make you question if it’s worth maintaining thisrelationship.
There is an argument to cut ties
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This is why there are arguments to be made for cutting or at least limiting contact. Being able tolive with yourselfis just as important, if not more important than being able to live with someone else. “Forgiving” someone for anything is a pretty normal part of abusive relationships, so healthyboundariesare important. Why should voting be any different?
This is also a good way to demonstrate, unequivocally, why it’s important to actually think a little before filling out a ballot. Your choices will affect others and you should be aware of that. In other words, actions will always haveconsequences. Ultimately, there is not a blanket answer to this question, but more often than not, it’s people asking “should I exclude someone for voting a certain way?” and not “how will my vote affect the people I love?”
Many thought he would not be a jerk
But a few thought he had to be more accepting
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