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A man answered a comment online criticizing women for overlooking nice guys due to their “niceness”
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The man explained that treating another person nicely is basic, but does not make one entitled to them
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“Who is going to tell them? I’ll tell them. Women aren’t looking for nice guys”
“Let me tell you the problem with ‘Nice Guys’. First off, being nice isn’t a flex. That’s what you’re supposed to be. Expecting women to want you because you’re a nice guy, it’s like expecting women to want you because you shower regularly. You shower regularly, right? At some point during your childhood, somebody told you that if you want a girl to like you, all you have to do is be nice to them. They lied. I’m sorry, that’s not true.”
“That is not enough. You need more than that. Do you understand? And this bitterness when a girl you like f*s someone that’s not you? What’s that about? Who did they fk? Somebody with more than niceness, right? Somebody who was charismatic, maybe? Who looked good, who smelled good. Who was funny. Somebody more interesting than you, right? Yeah.”
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“Another thing about ‘Nice Guys’, your niceness is always conditional. Like you’re nice, right up until the point where you realize that they’re not going to sleep with you. And after that they are every name in the book. They’re ugly, they’re s***s, they’re everything. As soon as you find out, they don’t like you – they’re everything. Your niceness is so fake. That’s why women aren’t looking for nice, there’s no more.”
“If your niceness is conditional, then it’s just manipulation”
“And another thing? Y’all are only nice to people that you find attractive. Let her be someone you don’t find attractive and see how not nice you would treat her. And the last thing is, hey, y’all get mad at women when they fk somebody who y’all think is not a good guy. ‘They say they want good dudes, but then always fk the blah, blah.’ Shut the f**k up. Let’s say someone asked me what kind of food I like because they’re ordering food for everybody. And I say ‘I like a good steak.’ And they say, ‘Well, we got McDonald’s, Taco Bell and Wendy’s.’ I’m going to pick McDonald’s, Taco Bell or Wendy’s.”
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This content creator was responding to a comment online criticizing women for not noticing the nice guys and secretly preferring men who are “not nice” or whom they only prefer due to physical qualities. The man explained that such an approach often works as an excuse for turning bitter and blaming women for a rejection, rather than turning inwards and either working on themselves or choosing a partner who chooses them.
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