Sometimes, we find ourselves stuck at a crossroads, unsure of what to do next. It’s no wonder—choices can feel overwhelming, especially when they have the power to shape our future.But making a move instead of staying in one place can really pay off. Just ask the people in thisReddit threadwho shared the best decisions they’ve made that transformed their lives for the better.Find their stories below, and don’t miss our conversation with spiritual career coachRebecca Kirk, who provides guidance on how to rely on your intuition when it matters most.More info:Instagram|Facebook|LinkedIn|YouTubeThis post may includeaffiliate links.
Sometimes, we find ourselves stuck at a crossroads, unsure of what to do next. It’s no wonder—choices can feel overwhelming, especially when they have the power to shape our future.
But making a move instead of staying in one place can really pay off. Just ask the people in thisReddit threadwho shared the best decisions they’ve made that transformed their lives for the better.
Find their stories below, and don’t miss our conversation with spiritual career coachRebecca Kirk, who provides guidance on how to rely on your intuition when it matters most.
More info:Instagram|Facebook|LinkedIn|YouTube
This post may includeaffiliate links.
One day when I was 14, I checked the mail when I got home from school. My mom had a habit of throwing away anything addressed to me and saying it was junk mail.But this day I got to the mail first and found a flyer for a summer camp (free!) at a local college. I never would have known about it otherwise.At that camp, I learned about a public school that was residential (and free!) for math and science focused students. The Catholic school I was attending at the time worked hard to keep students from finding out about this place.I found out about the school with only a few months to spare in order to submit my application. And I got in.That school changed my life. It got me out of a deeply toxic household, connected me with treatment for my depression, and set me up for college in a way I never otherwise could have accessed.I was a first generation college student, but that school connected me to scholarships, introduced me to faculty, and gave me lab work skills all before I graduated high school. I went to undergrad and grad school on a full ride and I’m a college professor now.And I never would have gone down this path at all, but for checking the mail that day.
Various sources suggest that the average adult makes between33,000 and 35,000 decisions each day—an astonishing number that’s akin to the seats in a sports stadium. Now, imagine processing all that in just 24 hours!
However, when it comes to more intentional decisions—like applying for a new job, entering arelationship, or moving to a different city—these choices demand significantly more mental effort. The more we deliberate, the more we may hesitate.
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Getting my cat. She’s my world and probably the only reason I’m still alive.
My mom was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer while I was in the midst of the busiest time of my career, working for a company that demanded long hours and had peak 2010s ‘hustle culture’ vibes.From the moment of her diagnosis, I immediately told my company they were taking the backseat and her health and spending time with her was my only priority, and I wouldn’t waver on it.What followed was a heartbreaking, frustrating, and upsetting time where her health rapidly deteriorated. But the time allowed her and I to have conversations and moments that are among the most beautiful moments of my life.I helped her through anguishing pain and reciprocated a small amount of the love and sacrifice she gave to me when she was a single mother raising me.In the end, my employer was fine. My job was safe. My career endured. My mom passed away eight weeks after we learned about that stupid disease.The only solace was that I decided to spend as much time as possible with her and actually did it.
So, how can we improve our ability to make decisions that feel like they could alter the course of our lives?
To gain some insight,Bored Pandareached out to spiritual career coach Rebecca Kirk, author ofYou’re Here for a Reason.
“By learning to listen to our intuitive voice—often felt as a gut feeling, an excited wave of energy, or sometimes just a faint whisper,” Kirk explains.
“But it’s not only about listening to that voice,” she insists. “It’s also about having the courage to act on it, especially when it doesn’t make total sense to your logical mind. There are signals within your body that, when connected with, can save you from overthinking.”
I’m not entirely sober, but I’ve gone from drinking a few nights a week to drinking a few nights a month, and aiming to decrease that as well to just social occasions.And I’ve also been drinking less on the evening I do drink. It’s been a good change.
Learning to not be angry, hurt & bitter & to just to simply be done with certain individuals & or circumstances.
When I finally broke free of the toxic religious church I grew up in. When I finally accepted me for myself without feeling guilt or shame, I felt a huge weight lifted.
Intuition can indeed be elusive. Many people argue it pales in comparison to the tangible weight of facts.
“I believe both intuition and facts are crucial and each has its place in decision-making,” Kirk states. “However, society has placed too much emphasis on facts, causing us to disconnect from one of our greatest gifts—our innate intuition.”
To amplify that internal voice and shed light on our uncertainties, Kirk recommends stepping back from the decision-making process for a while.
“Get outside, meditate, and create space for the answers to emerge,” she suggests. “Also, reflect on what might be holding you back. Is there an underlying fear, like the fear of making a mistake or worrying about others’ opinions regarding your heartfelt choices?”
“Trust in your ability to handle whatever comes your way. There’s no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ decision—only opportunities for growth and evolution,” Kirk adds. “Consider that the consequences of indecision might actually be worse than those of making a choice! It can leave us in a stagnant state, draining our time, energy, and mental space from something more productive.”
To be single. The PEACE!
Reading more books.
Getting sober.
Losing 80lbs. It took me about a year and I got started in the depth of COVID where I really started to realize my body and habits were seriously unhealthy.Made transitioning into college and so much easier with so much more confidence.
When I was a freshman in college a friend of mine from high school who was going to the same college set me up for a date at a dance with one of her sorority sisters. Date went great and I really liked this girl. She called me about a week later to arrange to give me a copy of the photo we had taken together at the dance. This was way before smartphones and messaging. We talked for a good hour about various things and I kept trying to work in asking her out for another date, but I chickened out. Once we hung up I hit my head hard with the phone receiver several times, swearing at myself, and I immediately called her back and asked her if she wanted to go out to dinner and a movie that Friday and she said yes. That was in early 1997 and we’re still happily married. She’s also still hot, so bonus points for me!
Stopped caring about other people’s opinions of how I live my life.
Going on birth control to stop my horrendous periods - it turned out that I had endometriosis and for years doctors just told me to “take a tylenol and deal with it.” I haven’t had a period in six years and I’m not anemic or severely underweight anymore, plus I can wear light-colored clothing and not have to worry about ruining any of it! I also don’t have to call off work for cramps so bad that I’m throwing up.
Not having children.
Joining a union.
Getting divorced.
Deleting my Instagram account, it made me from C to a straight A’s student!
Getting a dog that I honestly didn’t want. But he started playing with another dog, now me and that other dog’s owner are getting married.
A little over a year ago I dropped everything and moved to the other side of the country. Fresh start. I got a great job now. My own apartment. And it snows here!
Joining the Air Force. Second best decision: getting out of the Air Force.
Going to community College. I left high school with like a 2.3 GPA, not entirely sure but it wasn’t great. Im now leaving community College with an associates degree, a 3.75 GPA, a couple thousand bucks saved on tuition, and many more options to move toward as far as which colleges I can get into now.
Quit that toxic job.
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Going into therapy—schema therapy—was the best decision I’ve ever made.Changed my whole life and view on myself, others and the world.
Buying a house in 2019 instead of waiting.
Taking psychedelic mushrooms, with friends, when I was 20. Completely changed my perspective on life, I went from being a “pave the planet” republican to being an active member of the local Green Party, in 1989.
Quitting drinking.Except then I started drinking again after a bunch of time and miraculously, all of my health problems I had gotten rid of, came back!So I’m stopping again.
Marrying my wife.
Blocked my ex.
Attended therapy sessions.
I haven’t lived a long time but till now. But the best decision i made was stop watching porn. I realised how much energy and time i was wasting all for a pleasure that lasts mere minutes.
Not to fight that giraffe at the zoo.
Going on my first date with my now bf.
Going to college. While I haven’t gotten a job remotely even close to the fields I went for, and now have a seemingly insurmountable amount of crippling and stress inducing debt, I met my best friend there. And because I did that, I moved to his state to be his roommate. And because of that, I eventually met the woman who is now my wife.
Installing a bidet toilet seat.
Deleting League of Legends.
Switched to moisture wicking boxer briefs.I made sure my sons knew that these exist so they won’t have to suffer with cotton like we did.
Switched to boxer briefs.
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