In less than a month, Christmas will come, and Christmas stories are an integral part of this unique festive atmosphere. About a family at the holiday table, shaggy spruce branches, the flickering of lights on Christmas tree decorations, unboxingthe gifts… and sometimes, very sometimes – about dealing with entitled kinfolk.
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The in-laws pointed out that the author’s family would stay in one of their guest rooms, since they’re all family
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Time passed, other guests got added, but the in-laws assured the author that their room was being kept for them
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However, when the spouses drove down, the in-laws let them know about withdrawing their invitation due to new guests arriving
Needless to say, the spouses got incredibly livid and even considered cutting all ties with the fickle in-laws
Our heroine today is a 34-year-old woman who periodically had problems in her relationship with her mother-in-law. No, it’s not that it was a classic family feud – it’s just that from time to time, the MIL would throw out some unexpected trick, which greatly upset the author and her spouse. For example, intentionally excluding them both fromfamily photos…
But then, on the eve of anotherChristmas, everything seemed to be fine, and when the MIL invited the woman with her husband andchildto come and visit for the holiday (and that’s, mind you, almost a two-day drive!), they thought about it and agreed. And when the question of accommodation arose, the in-laws didn’t even want to hear anything – only in their house, in one of the two guest rooms!
Okay, time passed, Christmas was approaching, Santa was already finishing his preparations for the long road, and so were our heroes. And when the author’s sister-in-law with her family joined as guests, the hosts were anyway adamant – they could squeeze in, but still be under the same roof. After all, they were all family!
And on the very eve of the holidays, the author and her family hit theroad– and when they were almost there, some damn unpleasant news awaited them. It turned out that the BIL’s in-laws were also coming to visit, and since the house was not made of rubber and the owners weren’t able to accept more than eight people, their invitation was revoked. Period.
And so the spouses urgently needed to solve the issue of accommodation for Christmas and figure out where they would celebrate the holiday – and the original poster was, of course, burning with anger. So the woman decided to turn to netizens seeking some wise advice – what to do and how to build a further relationship with her mother-in-law. Or whether to build one at all.
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“This looks not just like blatant disrespect, but even just like a deliberate insult, especially if the mother-in-law has previously displayedsimilar behavior,” says Maria Kryvosheeva, apsychologistand NLP coach with whomBored Pandagot in touch for a comment. “Apparently, these unexpected guests have already arrived without warning, and the owners simply decided that they have the right to refuse their word.”
“It seems to me that this is a reason to at least demand an explanation – or simply come anyway, since they have been promised more than once that they will have accommodation in the house. After all, when the owners plan any family gathering, they need to be prepared to face the consequences.”
“It’s absolutely blowing my mind that someone would legitimately uninvite their own child to Christmas for anything short of a damned felony. And even that is debatable,” another really livid person wrote.
Most commenters under the post massively supported the author and urged her to go no contact with the in-laws
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