Marshall Mathers III, better known as Eminem, has had a proper rags-to-riches career since the late 1990s.
In this piece, we’ll explore Eminem’s complicated relationship with Kim Scot, revealing how they first met and how their relationship unfolded.
We’ll also delve into the tragedies she’s endured throughout her life and what she’s been up to since the couple filed their second divorce.
Table of ContentsEarly Life and BackgroundKim Meets Marshall Bruce Mathers IIIEminem and Kim’s First MarriageOpinion of Dr. Sarah Meehan O’CallaghanThe Second MarriageKim’s Life After the Second DivorceWhere Is Kim Scott Mathers Now?The Impact Kim Scott Mathers Had on Eminem’s Career
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Early Life and Background
Kimberly Anne Scott and her twin sister, Dawn, were born in Michigan on January 9, 1975, and most of her early life was pretty challenging. In 1988, at just 13, the twins reportedly ran away from home to a youth shelter to escape their drinking stepfather (perPeople).
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Kim Meets Marshall Bruce Mathers III
Kim met 15-year-old Marshall, still an aspiring rapper, at a youth home when she was 13. Shortly after their meeting, Eminem brought Kim home to live with Debbie, and the two became a couple.
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Debbie’s memoir portrays Kim at this time in quite scathing terms; she describes Kim as entitled, unsupportive, and the one calling the shots in her relationship with Eminem.
Debbie’s dislike of Kim reached a point where she “begged” Eminem to break up with her (he refused) and expressed that there was “always drama with Kim.” Again, Kim has never responded to these claims.
At one point, the relationship between Eminem’s mother and girlfriend deteriorated so much that Debbie banned Kim from their home. Debbie also claimed Kim treated Eminem terribly, but the “worse she treated him, the more he doted on her.”
In Eminem’s memoir, “Eminem: The Way I Am,” he revealed that they moved around a lot when Hailie was a newborn.
He said the couple were always “getting evicted or our house was getting shot up or robbed.” At one point, the young family moved in with Kim’s parents.
During 1997 the couple had been living in drug-infested neighborhoods, with Kim in agreement, “The neighborhoods we lived in f***ing sucked” (perRolling Stone, 1999).
After an incident in which all their possessions were stolen, Kim and Eminem moved back in with Debbie. According to Eminem, the situation was still far from ideal. “My mother did a lot of dope and s*** — a lot of pills — so she had mood swings,” he shared. Debbie, however, denied these allegations.
At one point, Eminem shared that he had moved out and that Kim and Hailie had stayed with his mother. While he didn’t have a job then, his rap career was on the precipice of blowing up.
The same year, the couple had (again) broken up. Eminem told Rolling Stone that Kim made it challenging to see Hailie and even threatened a restraining order against him.
At this point, Eminem wrote the song “Just the Two of Us” (later re-recorded and renamed “97 Bonnie and Clyde” in 1999 for The Slim Shady LP), which featured Hailie’s voice. The song ominously retells the story of a father and daughter disposing of a mother’s body.
When Kim found out that Eminem had taken their daughter to record that song (rather than Chuck E. Cheese as he had said), “She f***ing blew.” For her part, Kim did not comment on the song at the time.
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In a 1999 Rolling Stone interview, Eminem’s late friend, Proof, shed light on the dynamics of their relationship, which he had witnessed from the start.
Proof hinted at their undeniable connection, saying that “the love they got is so genuine, it’s ridiculous. He’s gonna end up marrying her.” And Proof was right — Eminem and Kim married on June 14, 1999, underscoring all the challenges the couple faced until then.
Eminem and Kim’s First Marriage
Debbie Nelson recounted her interpretation of the lead-up to the wedding, saying the proposal was not unexpected. However, she had suspicions about Kim’s motives and actively tried to stop Eminem from going through with the marriage.
Debbie claimed that Kim had dismissed the idea of a prenup at the time, saying, “We don’t need a prenup. I’m not marrying you for your money, Marshall. I love you.”
Debbie also recalls how she “cried throughout the thirty-minute ceremony.” It was the saddest day of my life,” she said in a memoir.
According to Debbie, Kim chose not to pledge obedience during her vows.
Sadly, explosive tendencies continued throughout their marriage, with many of their struggles finding a voice in Eminem’s music.
After nearly one year of marriage, Eminem’s third album, The Marshall Mathers LP, was released in May 2000. The album featured his well-known hit “The Real Slim Shady” and the track “Kim.”
“Kim” is a violent, anger-fuelled track and is one of Eminem’s darkest songs. The song was a prelude to “97 Bonnie & Clyde” (previously “Just the Two of Us”) and recounted the fictional domestic violence and murder of his then-wife.
Rolling Stonedescribed the song as a “mountain of bile reserved for Kim” and as “the world’s most public ongoing murder fantasy.” The review continued, saying that the song features Eminem screaming “an insane stream-of-consciousness hate spew.”
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At the time of the song’s release, Kim said nothing. However, during her interview with20/20, she revealed she was “embarrassed” and “humiliated.”
In July 2000, the song affected Kim’s mental health, and she attempted suicide. Kim attributed the attempt to watching Eminem perform “Kim” live (even though Marshall had promised her that he wouldn’t) with blow-up dolls to re-enact some of the song’s violent lyrics.
After leaving the performance, Kim raced home and immediately went upstairs to the bathroom to try and take her own life.
Opinion ofDr. Sarah Meehan O’Callaghan
Despite her emotional challenges, suicide attempts, and what would seem an abusive relationship, against the odds, Kim Scott is a true survivor. She has survived tragedy, heartache and hardship, including the horrific public shaming, anger and ridicule of her ex-partner Eminem through particular songs he targeted at her.
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The following month, Eminem filed for divorce and sought joint custody of their daughter. Five days later, Kim filed a defamation lawsuit (over the “Kim” lyrics and performances) for $10 million (perRolling Stone). The couple settled the defamation lawsuit out of court.
Surprisingly, the couple called off the divorce in December of that year and attempted to reconcile for the sake of their daughter. The attempt was for naught, and the volatile marriage came to a head (again), with Kim filing for divorce in March 2001 (perBBC).
The Second Marriage
Kim’s relationship with Hartter did not last; according toPeople, she became involved with Eminem again.
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At some point in the mid-2000s, the couple adopted Kim’s niece, Alaina Marie.Eminem revealed he had full custody of her in a 2004 interview withRolling Stone.
He said that since she was born, “Me and Kim pretty much had [Alaina], she’d live with us wherever we was at.” Around the same time, Marshall was also declared legal guardian of his younger half-brother, Nathan, who was 16.
In 2004, Kim entered rehab stemming from a drug possession charge (perFox News). After her stint of being “incarcerated in rehab,” Kim shared with 20/20 that Marshall had custody of the children and expressed gratitude that he was there to look after them during her absence.
According to Kim, Marshall asked her to stay a few nights with him and the kids at the house following her release. A few days turned into weeks, months, and nearly two years. Eminem adopted Stevie in 2005.
Eminem and Kim rekindled their romance, and the rapper proposed for the second time in late 2005, marking yet another chapter in their complex relationship.
Kim claimed that she didn’t want to get married, but Marshall pressured her to do so. “[It was] beautiful…I had the big dress and all of our family and friends and the kids…he had our kids read at the wedding,” she said, recalling the wedding.
Despite the picture-perfect wedding, their renewed marriage was short-lived.
Marshall filed for divorce just four months later, in April 2006. The second divorce was finalized in December of the same year. Kim claimed the marriage ended due to her disagreement with Eminem’s brother, Nathan.
Kim’s Life After the Second Divorce
Kim’s life post-Eminem was marred with struggle and controversy. She battled addiction and mental health issues. These struggles came to a head in October 2015 when Kim again tried to commit suicide.
Kim revealed to aDetroit Free Pressthat she drank, took pills, and intentionally drove into a telephone pole.
In January 2016, Kim’s twin sister, Dawn, was found dead in a “squalid mobile home” from a suspected heroin overdose (perDetroit Free Press).
Kim reportedly wrote on the funeral home’s tribute page, “Half of me is gone,” and that Dawn was “my sweet, beautiful sister who lost her way.”
In a surprising twist, Eminem apologized to Kim in his song “Bad Husband,” with the lyrics, “But I’m sorry, Kim/ More than you could ever comprehend.”
In a heartfelt tribute, Kim reflected on their turbulent relationship, writing, “You were my best friend, my sister at times, my damn nemesis at others, and even I was mom sometimes, but it was always pure love!!!”
Where Is Kim Scott Mathers Now?
Despite craving a life of privacy, Kim still attracts media attention — things seem to be finally looking up for Eminem’s ex-wife.
According toTheU.S. Sun, Kim completed a 45-day stint in rehab in 2022 and stayed clean ever since.
Kim debuted a bold look with short, bleached blonde hair and shared that her children have been supportive, but she declined to elaborate on her situation.
Kim also revealed that she still sees Marshall “often enough.” The former couple are on good terms; Eminem even loaned Kim $615,000 for a new home (perThe U.S. Sun).
In May 2024, Kim attended her daughterHailie’s weddingto Evan McClintock; however, no photos surfaced to confirm her attendance.
The closest proof is a clip of Hailie’s wedding from Eminem’s “Temporary” music video, in which a figure similar to Kim appears in the background.
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According toThe U.S. Sun, Kim was spotted running errands in Michigan in July 2024 with notable face and hand injuries.
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The Impact Kim Scott Mathers Had on Eminem’s Career
Through the ebbs and flows of their relationship, Kim Scott Mathers has left an indelible mark on Eminem’s life and artistry.
Their volatile dynamic provided raw material for some of his iconic tracks, including the deeply personal “Kim” and “97 Bonnie and Clyde.” She is also referenced in heartfelt songs like “Mockingbird” and motivational anthems like “Till I Collapse.”
In Eminem’s autobiographical film 8 Mile (2002), Brittany Murphy’s character drew inspiration from aspects of Kim. Yet the real-life relationship between Eminem and Kim was far more destructive than its Hollywood depiction.
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