Sometimes, you need self-deprecating insults to deliver a menacing final blow. It’s similar to a boxing match when a fighter takes one to the chin to land a counter-knockout punch toseal the deal.The list you’re about to read through shows exactly that: people taking slight jabs at themselves to ultimately make a more impactful comeback to end the conversation. A lot of thesehilarious exchangesare courtesy of theKamikaze By Words subreddit, showing the sharp wit that many people possess.This post may includeaffiliate links.
Sometimes, you need self-deprecating insults to deliver a menacing final blow. It’s similar to a boxing match when a fighter takes one to the chin to land a counter-knockout punch toseal the deal.
The list you’re about to read through shows exactly that: people taking slight jabs at themselves to ultimately make a more impactful comeback to end the conversation. A lot of thesehilarious exchangesare courtesy of theKamikaze By Words subreddit, showing the sharp wit that many people possess.
This post may includeaffiliate links.
Self-deprecating humor has brought success to many comedians.Bored Pandaspoke to comic Ariane Sherine in aprevious piece. For her, such light put-downs of oneself are acceptable if you draw the line between comedy and reality.It’s a strategy that many successful comedians today utilize. Some of these famous names include Louis C.K., Bill Burr, John Mulaney, Jim Norton, Marc Maron, and Mark Normand, to name a few.
Self-deprecating humor has brought success to many comedians.Bored Pandaspoke to comic Ariane Sherine in aprevious piece. For her, such light put-downs of oneself are acceptable if you draw the line between comedy and reality.
It’s a strategy that many successful comedians today utilize. Some of these famous names include Louis C.K., Bill Burr, John Mulaney, Jim Norton, Marc Maron, and Mark Normand, to name a few.
Mark Normandhas been doing stand-up since 2006. He’s achieved relative success with appearances on Conan, The Late Show With Stephen Colbert, and the Tonight Show With Jimmy Fallon. Here’sone of his stand-up bitswhere he talked about how “evil” his brain is.“My brain is evil. It attacks me. It’s like a bully. I’ll be at a party, hanging out, and everybody’s having a good time, talking. My brain’s like, ‘Hey, you weirdo, you’re being too quiet. Everybody’s wondering why you’re such a quiet weirdo. Come on. Get in there, say something, you lunatic.“‘Come on, you freak. Jump in, you psycho. Come on, get in there.’ Then you finally say something, and your brain goes, ‘Whoo…that’swhat you picked?’”
Mark Normandhas been doing stand-up since 2006. He’s achieved relative success with appearances on Conan, The Late Show With Stephen Colbert, and the Tonight Show With Jimmy Fallon. Here’sone of his stand-up bitswhere he talked about how “evil” his brain is.
“My brain is evil. It attacks me. It’s like a bully. I’ll be at a party, hanging out, and everybody’s having a good time, talking. My brain’s like, ‘Hey, you weirdo, you’re being too quiet. Everybody’s wondering why you’re such a quiet weirdo. Come on. Get in there, say something, you lunatic.
“‘Come on, you freak. Jump in, you psycho. Come on, get in there.’ Then you finally say something, and your brain goes, ‘Whoo…that’swhat you picked?’”
Chicago-based comedianJohn Mulaneyhas a deep, impressive résumé, which includes two Primetime Emmy Awards and a successful Netflix special. However, he rose to prominence as a Saturday Night Live cast member. Here’s his self-deprecating stand-up bit about looking older.“Have you ever seenAmerica’s Most Wantedwhen they age a photo of someone? Just take my kindergarten photo, yellow the teeth, put bags under the eyes, and be like, ‘This is what he would look like now.’”
Chicago-based comedianJohn Mulaneyhas a deep, impressive résumé, which includes two Primetime Emmy Awards and a successful Netflix special. However, he rose to prominence as a Saturday Night Live cast member. Here’s his self-deprecating stand-up bit about looking older.
“Have you ever seenAmerica’s Most Wantedwhen they age a photo of someone? Just take my kindergarten photo, yellow the teeth, put bags under the eyes, and be like, ‘This is what he would look like now.’”
Experts consider self-deprecating humor as a healthy form of expression. A2018 studyfound an association between having the ability to laugh at oneself and higher anger control. These people are likewise believed to be more capable of reducing outbursts toward others.
But the flip side shows how self-deprecatinghumorcould be more detrimental than beneficial. York University student Danielle Russellwrote an essayentitled “Self-deprecatory Humour and the Female Comic: Self-destruction or Comedic Construction?” where she pointed out how it almost panders to the audience.“Self-deprecation can be construed as a form of self-censorship. Satire is directed towards the self rather than confronting external targets. In a sense, it is a form of accommodation – accommodating the perceptions of others.”
But the flip side shows how self-deprecatinghumorcould be more detrimental than beneficial. York University student Danielle Russellwrote an essayentitled “Self-deprecatory Humour and the Female Comic: Self-destruction or Comedic Construction?” where she pointed out how it almost panders to the audience.
“Self-deprecation can be construed as a form of self-censorship. Satire is directed towards the self rather than confronting external targets. In a sense, it is a form of accommodation – accommodating the perceptions of others.”
Experts draw the line between modesty and self-deprecation in terms of mental health. Confidence coachJo Emersonspoke toMetroabout the differences and how the latter affects both people in conversation.“True modesty leaves the receiver feeling peaceful, whereas self-deprecation tends to leave the receiver feeling burdened to prop up the self-deprecator.”
Experts draw the line between modesty and self-deprecation in terms of mental health. Confidence coachJo Emersonspoke toMetroabout the differences and how the latter affects both people in conversation.
“True modesty leaves the receiver feeling peaceful, whereas self-deprecation tends to leave the receiver feeling burdened to prop up the self-deprecator.”
For some people, self-deprecation comes naturally. Often, they fail to notice when they are doing it. For Harley Therapy founder and clinical directorDr. Sheri Jacobson, it could be a sign of a deeper emotional issue.“If you get told that you often self-deprecate, and that seems surprising to you, then it is more likely a case of low self-esteem,” she said, pointing out that having a deflated concept of oneself can lead to a deep, “serious” depression.
For some people, self-deprecation comes naturally. Often, they fail to notice when they are doing it. For Harley Therapy founder and clinical directorDr. Sheri Jacobson, it could be a sign of a deeper emotional issue.
“If you get told that you often self-deprecate, and that seems surprising to you, then it is more likely a case of low self-esteem,” she said, pointing out that having a deflated concept of oneself can lead to a deep, “serious” depression.
At the time, JFK took flak from critics who claimed that his wealthy father, Joseph P. Kennedy, would buy votes and swing the election in their favor. The younger Kennedy had this to say in response:
“I just received the following wire from my generous daddy: ‘Dear Jack, don’t buy a single vote more than is necessary. I’ll be damned if I’m going to pay for a landslide.’”
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Ultimately, it’s all about finding balance. While self-deprecation for the sake of humility and breaking the ice isn’t harmful, experts also remind us about knowing when it becomes too much negative self-talk.Journaling is one recommended practice for self-awareness. As New York-based therapist Jill E. Dainopoints out, “While not everyone likes to use it, it can be very helpful in reframing negative thought patterns.”
Ultimately, it’s all about finding balance. While self-deprecation for the sake of humility and breaking the ice isn’t harmful, experts also remind us about knowing when it becomes too much negative self-talk.
Journaling is one recommended practice for self-awareness. As New York-based therapist Jill E. Dainopoints out, “While not everyone likes to use it, it can be very helpful in reframing negative thought patterns.”
If anyone doesn’t get the joke, he’s the main character in Drive. A lot of socially awkward men saw the movie, and identified with his character. I.e “He’s literally me.” Other examples of “Literally me” characters include Tyler Durden from Fight Club, Patrick Bateman from American Psycho, Travis Bickle from Taxi Driver, and The Joker.
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