Christmas gifts can be a headache, so a loved one coming up with a wishlist or revealing what it is they’d like to get can really make things easier.
But forthis redditor, his girlfriend telling him what she wanted for Christmas only made things worse. She said she wanted a new car, and a rather costly one, which the boyfriend didn’t consider a worthy investment under the given circumstances. Scroll down to find the full story below.
Getting the perfect Christmas gift for a loved one is not always easy
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This redditor’s girlfriend wanted a new car for Christmas, but he didn’t think it was a sensible investment
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This year, the majority of people are planning to buy gifts for their children, leaving partners second on the list
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Needless to say, we all want what’s best for our loved ones, and during the holiday season, that often includes getting them the perfect Christmas gift. But that’s often easier said than done. Some people are so picky or peculiar, they become impossible to shop for, others are “fine with everything”, which, again, is impossible to shop for, not to mention the instances when there’s clearly a perfect gift but it’s one that the giver can’t afford or can’t get because of other circumstances.
In a perfect world, people would get whatever their loved ones have set their eyes on, but in reality, there’s more at play than good intentions. The OP’s situation is a great example of that. Even though a new car was the number one on his girlfriend’s wishlist, the redditor thought it was financially irresponsible to get it for her for Christmas, especially considering that the woman’s current car was just a few years old at that point.
But the gift doesn’t have to be a new vehicle to encourage people to make difficult financial decisions. Take parents, for example; seeking to surprise their little ones with Christmas presents, as many as 16% of them are willing to go into debt, according to a2021 survey. It also found that in order to make sure their kid gets the coveted gift, the majority of parents—roughly half of them—preorder it months in advance and nearly a third shop online for a midnight release.
Some Christmas gifts seem to be more popular than others
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Even though a car is something quite a few people would likely love to receive, it’s not a thing that’s commonly mentioned in people’s letters to Santa.Statista foundthat this year, the most popular gift people would like to get comes in the shape of… money. That might come as no surprise, considering that it can then be used to buy something a person actually needs—or might have been saving up for—be it groceries and everyday items, or treating oneself to something out of the ordinary.
Vouchers and gift cards are second on the list as the most desired Christmas gift this year (likely for similar reasons as money), but items such as clothing and shoes come at a close third. Out of all the respondents, only 7% were unsure of what they wanted for Christmas, leaving it up to their loved ones to figure out.
While for some of the said loved ones, it seems like a mission impossible, others excel at the task of giving gifts. Chances are, the latter simply have a hunch about these things, but, for those who don’t, there are research-based tips for picking out great presents.
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