Everyone loves a good trip abroad; the new experiences, cultural immersion, escape from routine, and no obligations – absolutely delectable. However, there’s this one tiny thing that is just not as fun, and that’s the planning part.
This Redditor, for instance, got so fed up with her husband and his brother not acknowledging her efforts that she’s now contemplating canceling their grand 3-week Christmas getaway to Italy.
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The original poster has always been in charge of planning things, while her husband has taken care of household chores
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Eventually, she began feeling unappreciated and raised the issue with her spouse and their frequent travel companion – his brother
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A 33-year-old who not only complained a lot but also never bothered to help or say “thank you”
Did you know that according to theTourism Academy, a global leader in training and professional development for the tourism industry, “Americans take 93 million international outbound trips each year”?
Checking the entry requirements and ensuring the validity of everyone’s passports, finding the best itinerary options and booking a stay, sorting out travel insurance, dealing with finances, creating daily schedules with random educational and leisure activities – the list can go on and on.
Besides, at times, when you do something out of goodwill, or even because you like it, people tend to falsely believe that just because you’re not actively asking for help, you don’t need it and/or you won’t appreciate it, which can also then progress into bigger trouble, where they start to take advantage – pretty much just like the original poster’s husband and his twin.
I mean, chances are the majority of you know exactly what it’s like to have people not appreciate your hard efforts. It sucks, and you begin to lose all the excitement – however, despite how cliché it sounds, there isn’t a better remedy than open and honest communication!
The man didn’t take her concern seriously, which prompted her to think about canceling their upcoming Xmas trip to Italy
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The thing is, though,u/Emotional-Ad3352had already tried communicating the issue to her husband, but instead of discussing it like grown adults, the man decided to disregard his beloved partner’s feelings and cuss her out.
But let’s rewind!
The OP is a big planner and has been in charge of many vacays and getaways. She’d ask her spouse for help with some trivial things like finding a ride – however, the guy would usually ignore the task until the very last moment or would make a mistake.
Naturally, when the Redditor finally reached her boiling point and realized that her close ones did not recognize her hard work, she started debating canceling their upcoming Xmas trip abroad to Italy that, you guessed it, she also planned alone.
So, Pandas, what do you reckon?
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