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One sitter shared how she had to refuse to help a family because of their focus on reusable cloth diapers
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The parents were completely unwilling to compromise in this case
The author of the post pointed out that she didn’t want to handle more poop than she needed to. That was why she asked the parents to reconsider their parenting approach for just one night.
However, the parents refused to look for a compromise. And so, the sitter decided to refuse the job in turn.
“We started arguing so I just left and went home and had a relaxing night. My mom said I should have just done it because they were in a bind but I gave them options and they vetoed all of them so I stuck to my boundary,” the OP explained to the readers on the AITA subreddit.
They need to evaluate what their clients’ demands are, and whether they fit nicely with their prior job experience and understanding of their own dignity.
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Different types of diapers have different upsides and drawbacks
Cloth and regular diapers both have their pros and cons. Which family used which ones will depend on the parents’ values, financial situation, how they were raised themselves, and how sensitive their babies’ skin is. For instance, ‘The Bump’explains thatcloth diapers tend to be far cheaper than their disposable alternative.
Because cloth diapers are reusable, they’re more eco-friendly. What’s more, they’re also gentler on sensitive skin. However, they also require poop scooping and deep cleaning, and so you may be using more water and electricity as a result. On top of that, they’re also less absorbent.
Disposable diapers, on the other hand, tend to be more convenient, absorbable, and breathable. On the flip side, they’re worse for the environment. And some dyes and gels in them can lead to irritated sensitive skin.
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Good communication is the foundation of a positive relationship between the sitter and parents
To put it bluntly: all parents think that their children are the most important things in the world. And so, they may expect everyone else to fawn over them, and jump through countless hoops just to make them happy.
Exact feeding and sleep times are fine, as are lists of dietary restrictions and emergency contacts. And it’s important to be clear what kinds of activities the kids enjoy doing and how much time they’re allowed to spend in front of screens.
What parents should not expect however is for their (often underpaid) sitters to go above and beyond the call of duty. Poop scraping probably falls in that category for anyone who’s only ever worked with regular, disposable diapers before. And sittersneed to communicatetheir boundaries in a friendly but clear way.
If you feel uncomfortable doing something, say so. The more flexible and respectful you are, the better. But you should not have to sacrifice all of your boundaries and principles out of fear of losing a night’s pay. What a professional is willing to tolerate will depend entirely on them. And sometimes that line that shouldn’t be crossed is a poopy cloth diaper that needs scraping.
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