December 21st was a once-in-a-lifetime night forDixon Handshaw, a 75-year-old man who wasseparatedfrom hisbiological familyat birth and was ableto finally meet and hug them in aheartwarming reunion.
Handshaw spent most of his life believing he was an only child, but his entire perspective changed once he discovered he wasactuallyadopted and had several siblings waiting to meet him.
HighlightsAdoptee finds family 75 years later, fulfilling lifelong dream.Dixon Handshaw meets over 50 relatives in a heartwarming reunion.2020 law change enabled access to adoptees' birth certificates.Dixon’s resemblance to his father convinced family of his identity.
Excited, the 75-year-old packed his belongings and traveled from his home in North Carolina to Rochester, New York, wherehewas able to reunitewith some of his half-siblings for the first time, just ahead of their family’s annual Christmas party.
“This is my Christmas miracle,” Handshaw said in an interview. “All my life, I dreamed about having siblings somewhere.”
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To say his dreamcametruewould be an understatement, as he went from having almost no family, to meeting over 50 relatives in a single day.
The gathering, which took place last Saturday, included generations offamily members, from cousins and their children,to half-brothers and sisters, all waiting to celebrate with theirlong-lost relative.
“I’ve never met anybody who shares my DNA,” Handshaw, who has no children of his own and was the only child to his adoptive parents, said with emotion.
As hisnewly-foundloved ones gave him one hug after another, the 75-year-old’s heart replenished itself with the affection he had longed for decades. “It was wonderful,I have never felt such an outpouring of unconditional love as I had from my new family,” he said.
Handshaw tried to locate his biological family, but his birth certificate wasn’t obtainable until a 2020 bill allowed adoptees to request a copy
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Dixon Handshaw was born in Buffalo, New York, in 1949. He was adopted at three months old and, despite his relative loneliness, had a happy childhood. His parents, according to him, were always honest about him being adopted but didn’t know of the existence of his biological family, let alone how big it was.
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Like anyadoptedkid, he longed to reconnect with his biological relatives, but his search came to a temporary halt due to legislation surrounding his adoption papers.
“I always wanted to find them, but New York State sealed the pre-adoption birth certificates, and it was impossible to find out,” he said.
All of that changed in 2020 afterabillestablishing the right ofadopteesto receive a certified copy of their birth certificate upon reaching the age of 18 was passed.This allowed Handshaw to resume his inquiry,finally receivinghis papers in August of this year.
Robert Romig, the name of his father, was the key that he needed to reconnect with his estranged family.
“The first thing I did when I got my father’s name was Google him, and up pops his obituary,” he recalled. “Not only was I shocked to see that I looked exactly like him, but I immediately knewthat Ihad all these brothers and a sister.”
Handshaw’s striking resemblance to his biological father instantly convinced his brothers of his claim, and they welcomed him with open arms
Shortly after Handshaw’s birth, Romig settled down in Rochester with a woman who had three sons of her own. In a somewhat ironic twist of fate, Romig ended up adopting these three children while at the same time giving his biological one away for unknown reasons.
“I chose Gary as the one that I would call because I knew he was adopted and I was adopted, and so I thought he would be empathetic to my situation,” Handshaw said.
Handshaw’s uncanny resemblance to hisbiological fatherwas all the proof Gary needed to believe his claims of him being their long-lost brother.The photo was then forwardedto all of the Romig siblings.
“It’s Dad!” they all said, according to Gary, who then confirmed to them, “That’s your new brother.”
The siblings all joined a group chatin whichtheytalk“every day.” Making up for lost time, the family already organized a camping trip for this summer.
“I had greatadoptive parents. They were wonderful. I love them, and I miss them, but I always wanted siblings, and now I have them,” Handshaw said, his tale proving that while dreams may take a while tobe realized, they do come true in the end.
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