Adopting a furry companion is a life-changing experience because pets can provide wonderful companionship, love, and tons of entertainment. Even though having a cat ordogsounds like a lot of fun, it definitely requires effort and patience. That’s why you shouldn’t just adopt an animal on a whim.
Even if you’ve always wanted a four-legged friend, there’s a lot of thought that should go into the decision first. You definitely shouldn’t just pick up akittenand spring it on your unsuspecting family, like this guy.
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Adopting a pet shouldn’t be a rushed decision, it requires a lot of forethought
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The poster explained that her husband always wanted a cat, but she and her two sons never wanted to get a pet for their house, especially as her older son was quite against the idea
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Despite knowing how much his family didn’t want a pet, the husband brought home a kitten one day without telling anyone
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When the man was asked if his family just had to accept his impulsive decision, he said yes, meaning that he didn’t care if his family felt uncomfortable having a pet around
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The poster was annoyed as she and her kids would have to take on the stress of looking after the kitten because she knew her husband wasn’t very responsible
You probably know of situations where kids have pleaded with their parents to get them a pet, even if they’re not responsible enough to own one. In this story, the tables were turned. The poster’s irresponsible husband just went out and got a kitten even though his family didn’t want to own one. He didn’t care that his kids were uncomfortable with the idea and that a pet wouldstresshis wife out.
To understand more about adopting a pet and the best way to go about it,Bored Pandareached out toMeloCat. Known to just make things work, no matter how difficult, MeloCat cares for a large family of rescued and adopted cats, including special needs cats, feeder mice, and feeder fish.
She told us that “a ‘surprise’ pet might only be appropriate if the person is certain their family is fully prepared, mentally, physically, and financially for the responsibility. Bringing home a pet can bring joy, but it can also create unforeseen burdens if the family isn’t fully on board or ready for thecommitment.”
She also explained that “it’s important to have a candid conversation. A few things to consider are:
We also contactedPetra Luna, the creator of theCatCrazy channel, for her opinion on this situation. She told us that “surprising a family with a kitten can be a sweet gesture, but it’s important to think things through to make sure it’s a ‘pawsitive’ experience for everyone involved, especially the cat!”
“Adding a furry family member is a big and long-term commitment, so make sure everyone is on board. Doing some research on what cats need is key before diving in. Check for cat allergies in your family, make sure you have enough space, and see if your lifestyle is a good fit for a cat,” Petra added.
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Getting an animal as a gift is a huge life-changing experience, so it’s understandable that the receiver might be shocked. Somepet expertsstate that if one’s partner adopts an animal without asking, the anger and frustration felt might not just be about the pet. It often stems from a feeling of hurt that one’s companion would make such big life decisions without even asking them.
To understand how the man could have approached the situation differently, we askedMeloCatwhat a person should be prepared for before adopting a cat or any pet. She said that “pets aren’t fluffy toys. They are sentient beings with their own needs and emotions. As they say, ‘To us, they may be a pet, but to them, we are their entire world.’”
“Here are some key points to consider:
CatCrazy Petraalso added that “it’s a good idea to involve the whole family in the decision-making process. Don’t forget about the financial side of things: food, vet visits, grooming, and toys can add up. Make sure your home is cat-proof with all the essentials like a bed, tree, litter box, bowls, scratching post, and grooming tools. Keep any dangerous stuff out of reach, too.”
“Think ahead about vet care and pet insurance, and have a plan in case of emergencies or vacations. It might seem like a lot, but it can be a fun process that brings your family closer together. By being prepared and fully committed, you’ll ensure your new furry friend gets all the love and care they need, and your family can enjoy the experience together,” Petra explained.
As MeloCat stated: “A pet, surprise or not, can’t be a surprise for long. You have to think of yourself as a parent, not a shopper.Adoptinga pet is a lifelong commitment, one you have to keep, even if your own world shifts!”
The poster and her family were absolutely in the right to be angry at the man for his rash decision. We can only hope they managed to sort out the situation in the best way possible for themselves and the animal.
Folks were concerned about the kitten and urged the poster to convince her husband to rehome it
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