Parents who can’t keep their kids under control can be a menace. Whether their child is having a meltdown, pestering perfect strangers, or running amok unsupervised, these folks just don’t seem to have any idea of their parenting responsibilities.
One guy experienced the fallout of poorparentingfirsthand when he found an upset 8-year-old girl wandering around his yard one night. Not sure what to do, he called the police, but when the girl’s mother was found she accused him of being a jerk.
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Taking care of a stranger’s kid is an unenviable position to be in, but this guy found he had no choice
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After arriving home one night, he found a teary 8-year-old girl wandering around his yard unsupervised
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Unsure what to do next, the guy decided it would be best to get the police involved
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The police finally located the girl’s mother, but instead of being grateful, she hurled abuse at the guy for calling the cops
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The mom has since badmouthed the guy to everyone in the neighborhood, so he took to the web to ask netizens if he was a jerk for his handling of the unwelcome situation
Uncertain how to handle the situation, OP decided to call the non-emergency line. The dispatch asked him to question the little girl, but she just mumbled and shrugged again, so they asked him if he could keep an eye on her until thecopscame. On arrival, the officer asked OP for some info and went to the neighbors to try and find a parent.
OP says that as soon as the police got involved, he extricated himself from the situation and went about his night. Much to hissurprise, a woman showed up at his door later and asked him if he was the person who reported her child to the police. OP tried his best to explain, but the woman went off on him, accusing him of being a total jerk.
Ever since, the woman has been slandering OP to the entire neighborhood, so he turned to Reddit to ask the community whether or not he did the right thing.
From what OP tells us in his post, he was just trying to do the right thing while not getting too involved in the awkward situation. Now he’s the neighborhood bad guy, but isn’t the kid’s mother really at fault here? Perhaps it’s her parenting that needs some work.
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In her article forVeryWellMind, Kendra Cherry writes that parenting styles are constructs used to articulate the different strategies parents tend to turn to when raising their children. Cherry says these styles encompass parents’ attitudes, behaviors, and the emotional environment they raise their kids in.
According to Cherry, there are four recognized parenting styles, mostly thanks to the pioneering work of psychologistDiana Baumrind.
In her article forPsychology Today, Karyl McBride (Ph.D.) writes that neglectful parents will often use shame and humiliation when the child tries to get their love or approval. The danger in this is that the child may ultimately stop trying, and the loneliness that follows might indeed turn out to be easier to deal with than the disgrace or neglect.
Based on OP’s story, we think it’s safe to say their neighbor falls squarely into the uninvolved parenting category and should probably work on herrelationshipwith her kid.
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