Giving birth is quite a feat. Of course, everyone hasdifferentexperiences, but there are few things everyone has in common: there is at least some pain, discomfort, uncertainty and, eventually, relief.
Because each pregnancy differs from the other, even when we’re talking about the same mother, one cannot know how things are going to pan out. When giving birth, you have to be prepared for the unexpected.
When it comes to what happens in the delivery room, mothers are the ones dictating the rules
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It is easy to understand both sides of this story. On one hand, the author’s wish to be a part of his son’s birth is understandable. On the other, the wife is the one who dictates her rules when it comes to delivery—after all, she’s the one doing the work.
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To avoid such misunderstandings, parents-to-be should draft a birthing plan before the big day
Some of the questions that are usually answered inthe planare:
And even when all of those are decided, it still doesn’t mean that things go according to it. The mother might think that she wants an all-natural birth, but when the pain hits her, she might want painkillers. She might plan to have her husband in the delivery room, but when she’s tired and in pain, she might not want to see him anywhere near her. Respecting that decision is a part of being a good partner.
The author provided more background information about the situation for people looking for more details
Some people sided with guy, claiming it was unfair she didn’t warn him about her wishes in advance
Many said that both of them were not being kind to one another
Others sided with the wife, urging the author to apologize ASAP
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