Today’s Original Poster (OP) is struggling to process his emotions after returning from a work trip just to find out that his wife put down their dog while he was away.

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The author’s dog had been with him through thick and thin for over ten years and was slowing down a bit

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He went for a work trip and left the dog in his wife’s care, but learned his wife had put her down upon his return

Man arguing with a woman, expressing the loss of trust and grief over their dog’s sudden absence.

His wife insisted that she had no choice and that she wanted to spare him the pain of seeing his dog suffer

He was angry and heartbroken because she didn’t inform him before making such a monumental decision

For the OP, his dog wasn’t just a pet; she was family. The golden retriever had been with him for 12 years—longer than his marriage. She was there through life’s ups and downs, and she meant a lot to him. So, when he had to leave for a work trip that would last a week, he trusted hiswifeto care for the dog, and not to make irreversible decisions behind his back.

The OP noted that thedogwasn’t in obvious distress before he left. She was slowing down, sure, but there was no sign that she was at death’s door. However, when he returned from his trip, he returned to an empty home. No barks, no waiting at the door. But probably nothing could have prepared him for the news he was about to hear.

By the time he asked his wife where their dog was, she admitted to putting her down. According to her, the dog’s condition worsened while the OP was away, and thevetadvised euthanasia. His wife insisted she did it out of kindness. Rather than burdening him with the pain of seeing the dog suffer, she made the call herself.

But the OP wasn’t convinced. In fact, he knew his wife had a tendency to overreact, so he was left wondering if she had just overreacted to the dog’sillness. To get answers, the OP called the vet but he didn’t get a response.

Man in a maroon sweater looking out a rainy window, appearing sad after losing his dog and trust in his wife.

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Pet Honestyshares that the bond between humans and pets is one of the strongest emotional connections in the world, as they offer comfort, reduce stress, and improve mental health. Things that are increasingly important in today’s world. They report that studies have shown that pet owners often experience higher self-esteem, better physical fitness, and lower stress levels.

The OP’s wife claimed that she put the dog down to save her husband the pain of seeing her suffer; however, theCounselling Directorystates that one of the major reasons there is a breakdown in communication among couples is due to assumptions. “Making assumptions about the other’s thoughts or intentions can lead to misunderstandings,” they state on their website.

According to coach and motivational speakerTony Robbins, it is very important for partners to at least consider their spouse when making decisions and not assume they would feel a certain way about a situation. This is what makes for a healthyrelationshipwhere there is mutual respect and trust as it strengthens the bond.

In an update, the OP said he had called the vet and wasn’t sure what to think anymore. What do you think about this situation? Do you think the wife was justified in making the decision alone, giving the reason she provided, or should she have consulted her husband first?

Netizens insisted the author’s wife was wrong for putting the dog down without letting him know and even suggested it would be a dealbreaker for them

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