Because as you may understand, kids may bring a little chaos to the celebration, or somebody needs to always look after them and not fully enjoy this magical day.
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Requests at weddings, such as not bringing kids, apply to everyone, no exceptions
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Woman is furious after, despite clear instructions sent 2 years ago about her child-free wedding, one of the groomsmen still requests different treatment
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Her fiance went nuts that his wife-to-be won’t allow his friend to come and called her selfish
Well, the woman wasn’t planning to budge. However, once her partner found out, he was furious that she wouldn’t allow his friend to come to the wedding. She reminded him of the few incidents that happened at their BBQ with this kid, so what would be happening during a whole day indoors is even scary to think about. She was called selfish and inconsiderate; however, it’s her wedding and she is not planning to negotiate.
Community members backed up the woman and discussed that the groomsman is being a jerk in this situation as he was informed in advance about the wedding rules and the partner has no right to be mad at her. “Why isn’t he mad at his friend for not getting childcare?!” one user wrote. “Do not back down. Best decision ever was our child-free wedding,” another encouraged.
Additionally,Bored Pandagot in touch with Jhona Yellin, who is an editor and writer atBespoke Bride, and she kindly agreed to share her insights about effective communication between couples, considerations when thinking about whether to include kids in one’s wedding and how to find a compromise when the couple’s opinions differ.
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So, according to Jhona Yellin from the weddingblog Bespoke Bride, effective communication between couples during the wedding planning process is practically the holy grail of matrimonial harmony. “Picture this: you and your partner are like a dynamic wedding planning duo, the Batman and Robin of event organization. Your superpower? Communication. Seriously, it’s crucial!”
She shares that she has seen couples who can read each other’s mind during the planning process and that’s basically like witnessing a magic show! However, it’s important to note that not all couples are like this. “Some are more like Abbott and Costello, fumbling through misunderstandings and miscommunications. That’s where the importance of effective communication shines.”
So when couples openly discuss their ideas, desires and expectations, it paves the way for smoother planning, less arguments and a happier wedding day.
Moreover, speaking about kids at weddings, Jhona says that they’re little bundles of joy and chaos all rolled into one adorable package. Thus, including kids on your guest list can add a sprinkle of cuteness, such as ring bearers and flower girls stealing the show with their pint-sized charm.
However, it’s important to not forget that kids can also be unpredictable like little tornadoes. “They might toss petals with enthusiasm one moment and have a meltdown the next. So, consider your venue and the patience of your guests. Are you ready for a symphony of giggles and squeals, or do you prefer the soundtrack of adult conversation?”
“Remember, compromise is like the secret sauce in a successful marriage recipe. It’s the delicate balance of flavors that makes your wedding day a harmonious feast for all,” she highlights.
Redditors backed the woman up and discussed that the groomsman was in fact being selfish
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