It’s common knowledge that children’s safety is an important matter. After all, they’re just small, fragile beings that usually can’t fend for themselves. So, it’s up toadultsto take care of them. Yet, some of them tend to neglect this responsibility.
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While kids’ safety is an important matter, some adults are way too carefree about it
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Until she found out one day that anytime they go for a drive, the grandmother doesn’t put the kid in a car seat, risking his life
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After some time, the grandmother was given a second chance, but she crossed the line when she pulled the same thing, dismissing her daughter’s pleas for safety
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This made the woman so enraged she decided to ban her mom from being alone with her son ever again
These seats are essential for little kids because they provideprotectionin crashes, which are theleading causeof death for children ages 1 to 13. A car seat cannot just be any car seat; it has to be a correct match according to the kid’s age and weight, and it must beproperly installedaccording to the manufacturer’s instructions.
So, putting a kid in a car without a proper seat will not only put you at risk of afine,but it also puts their health—and even their life—at risk. Still, for the OP’s mom, this fact wasn’t enough. When asked why she did it, she tried to justify it, saying they were just “going round the corner,” but this didn’t work on her daughter, as she saw this as a sign not only of neglect but of disrespect as well.
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Ayearlater, the original poster decided to trust her mom with a kid again, but not before she stressed to her how important acarseat was. She even threatened to cut contact if she didn’t use it. And still, the grandmother didn’t take it seriously. They went out, and the kid was without a seat again.
Many netizens thought that was the best choice she could have made in the scenario. Her mom clearly doesn’t respect her boundaries, dismissing everything she says—from pleas to ultimatums—and she doesn’t even seem to value her grandkid’slife.
While yes, he’s 5 years old and not a complete infant, he’s still not big enough to ride without a car seat. It’s recommended that kids stay in seats until they’re12 years oldor at least 135 centimeters tall, whichever comes first. So, at age 5, he’s clearly far from that criteria (kidstypicallyreach that height around their 7th year or so).
Well, we can just hope that not being able to spend 1 on 1 time with her grandchild will open the grandmother’s eyes to how neglectful she has been. And if it won’t, let’s hope she won’t get another chance to do the same thing again.
Netizens thought that the woman’s actions were justified, as her mom was clearly neglectful of her grandkid and dismissive of her daughter
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