We all have different preferences regarding which names we like and which we do not, and it comes into play the most when we’re tasked with naming another person.
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Everyone has different preferences, but some people have no respect for opinions that don’t match their own, even if it comes from their friends
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The couple’s families loved these ideas, but when the woman shared them with her friends, she was laughed at
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The friends said that the names were cruel because they were old-fashioned and would make her child a target for bullies, which created doubt in the woman’s mind
Both of their families also love and support these choices. However, when the author shared their ideas with her friends, she got laughed at. They told her that naming a child with such an old-fashioned name is cruel and would subject them to bullying at school.
People participating in the discussion unanimously stood with the poster. They said that names like Arthur and Edith are beautiful, easy to pronounce, have good nicknames, and are actually quite popular among kids nowadays. Some also questioned if the people that the OP hangs out with are really her friends, as their reactions were quite horrid.
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But seeds of doubt are not always that easy to get rid of. That is especially true when it comes to such a big and important matter like naming a child. So, to bring a little bit more certainty to this situation,Bored Pandareached out toJacqueline Hurst, a Certified Life Coach, MasterNLPPractitioner, Certified Health and Weight Coach, andauthor.
But no matter whether you like them or not, downright dismissing these names and saying that giving them to a child is cruel is quite ignorant and close-minded. “Embracing old-fashioned names can celebrate tradition, honor family heritage, and foster a sense of connection to the past.”
Jacqueline also shared that, as a life coach, she encourages people to adopt an open-minded mindset, recognize that naming preferences are very subjective and deeply personal, and appreciate the beauty of diversity in names.
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According to the expert, there are more benefits that come with having an old-fashioned name. “These names connect individuals to their cultural roots, fostering a deeper sense of identity and belonging.”
While the popularity of names like Arthur and Edith is once again on the rise, there are other pluses that come with traditional names that might not be as popular at the moment. “Less common names make individuals stand out, leading to greater memorability and lasting impressions.”
Ultimately, naming a child is a decision that rests on the parents and them alone. While it may not determine the kid’s whole life, it’s no small thing, and it’s absolutely okay to share your opinion when you know it’s wanted, even if your beliefs clash. However, laughing in the person’s face when they tell you about something they like is, as some commenters of the post said, horrid and a sure way to lose a friend.
What did you think about this story? What do you think about naming children traditional names like Arthur or Edith? Share your thoughts down below!
The commenters wholeheartedly disagreed with the woman’s friends, calling their response horrid and assuring her that the names were popular and beautiful
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