Does a $1 tip even count as a tip? Or is it just a reminder that some people treat generosity like a bad stand-up routine? Leaving pocket change for service that went above and beyond isn’t just stingy – it’s practically a roast.

Tipping is one of those unspoken social rules where a little thoughtfulness goes a long way, but not everyone seems to have gotten the memo, like our Redditor’s soon-to-be in-laws. Our guy found himself in the middle of a tipping tug-of-war with his fiancée’sfamily, and the result was as awkward as trying to split a check among 12 people.

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The man takes his future in-laws out for dinners on a regular basis, always pays the entire bill and asks them to cover the tip only, but he’s shocked to find out they only leave $1

Text conversation about covering meal expenses due to fiancée’s family’s $1 tipping habit.

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The family always expects him to pay for the bill, since he’s wealthy, but only tip $1 each time, even for a $240 bill

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The OP was floored when he discovered this cheap tipping habit wasn’t a one-time slip – it was the family’s standard practice. If you’re rolling your eyes right now, you’re not the only one. I’m pretty sure our OP was too. He had had enough and told his fiancée he wouldn’t be treating her family todinnersanymore.

The family didn’t take this news well, of course. They had just lost their free biweekly meal ticket, and they weren’t happy about it at all. They accused the OP of being ungrateful, ironically, and argued that, since his family is wealthy, he should continue to pay for their meals, out of some twisted obligation. Excuse me, but last I checked, wealth doesn’t come with a side of “pay for everyone else’s bad manners.”

When he showed them he actually meant what he said, things got ugly. His fiancée’s family bombarded her with calls, throwing out offensive,racistremarks about Koreans and implying she should dump him. While his fiancée sided with him, the result left the OP questioning whether he handled things the right way.

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Here’s the thing, though:tippingin the U.S. (where our story takes place) isn’t just polite, it’s expected. While restaurant staff earn a base wage, tips make up a significant chunk of their income.

However, in many Asian countries like Japan and China, tipping isn’t common and might even be perceived as disrespectful, as it could imply dissatisfaction with their wages. To navigate these differences, it’s wise to consult reliable resources, such as travel guidebooks or etiquette guides. When unsure, asking a local is always a good strategy.

“I would not advise telling an individual they are tipping too little unless the two of you have a close relationship.  It may be that they miscalculated (we are not all so good at math) but it may also be they have a different mindset about tipping. You don’t want to accuse someone of being cheap,” Farley added.

We wanted to know what is generally considered a good tip in the U.S. Farley explained that a standard tip for quality service in the U.S. is around 18-20%, with exceptional service warranting 25% or more. For casual takeout, tipping is optional, and even small amounts are acceptable. However, customers who choose not to tip might notice judgmental looks from staff when they decline.

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