Tight deadlines for year-end tasks and preparing for the next can make the holiday season a stressful time at work. So, companies usually add a little celebration to lighten the mood. But one employeeshareda story of how a Secret Santa exchange only made things worse. They carefully chose a thoughtful gift for their boss, wrapping it in a cute box. However, in return, the boss gave a mockery of a present, ultimately adding to the employee’s decision to leave the job altogether.

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And for this worker, a gift exchange with their boss only added to their stress

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These awkward and hurtful situations are the reason why people aren’t pumped about Secret Santa in the first place

On paper, the holiday tradition can help bigger groups exchange presents pretty efficiently, but much of its success depends on who’s involved.

Gifts forotherpeople’s kids, such as nieces, nephews, and friends’ children came in second place with 40 percent, while gifts for neighbors (27 percent) and in-laws (26 percent) ranked next.

“There’s often a sense of obligation to participate in workplace or social gifting traditions, even when budgets are tight,” Money.com.au finance expert Sean Callerysaid.

“Secret Santa or gifts for distant relatives or acquaintances can feel more like a box-ticking exercise than spreading festive cheer. In a time of rising cost-of-living pressures, some people might question these purchases and focus on more meaningful gifts for their closest loved ones instead.”

Boss’s Insulting Secret Santa Gift Makes Worker Quit Months Later, HR Gets Involved

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In fact, cost-cutting and the desire to avoid mingling with colleagues are pushing many workers to miss their office Christmas parties.

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Reddit comments discussing issues with Secret Santa gifts in office settings.

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Text exchange about Secret Santa gift swap with boss, discussing fairness in workplace gifting.

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HR involvement after Secret Santa gift gone wrong in online comments exchange.

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Reddit post discussing a Secret Santa gift swap mishap involving a boss and HR.

Comments about a Secret Santa gift swap involving a boss, highlighting HR issues and disrespectful workplace interactions.

Reddit discussion about a Secret Santa gift incident involving a boss and HR involvement.

Online discussion about HR involvement in a Secret Santa gift swap incident.

The reactions just kept pouring in

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Comment about a boss making a joke during a Secret Santa event, causing HR involvement.

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Reddit comment about a Secret Santa office joke gone wrong, involving a boss and HR.

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Text exchange about a white elephant gift swap gone wrong at work, leading to HR involvement.

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Reddit comment discussing the issues and awkwardness of workplace Secret Santa gifts.

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