Everyone deserves to feel confident in their body and be respected no matter what size orweightthey are. The body-positive moment empowers people to feel comfortable regardless of the number they see on the scale. Unfortunately, some folks have taken this ideology too far and try to use it as a weapon against people who’ve hurt theirfeelings.
This is what a nurse faced when she had to take care of a 450-pound patient who had been hospitalized for surgery. A simple discussion between them suddenly took an ugly turn.
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Doctors and nurses don’t just have to look after the health of their patients but their own health as well, but sometimes their patients can become an obstacle in the way of that
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The poster, who is a nurse, explained that she had to take care of a 450-pound body-positivity influencer who wanted to record her entire hospital visit
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During the patient’s stay, she had to use a bedpan but couldn’t lift her hips up, and the nurse wasn’t able to move the woman on her own, so she decided to ask a few staff members for help
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The patient felt hurt and angry that a team of people would be needed to lift her, not realizing that the poster had requested their help for the sake of safety and not to hurt anyone’s feelings
The 30-year-old patient had been hospitalized after a major surgery. During that time, the nurse found out that she was abody-positiveinfluencer, especially since the woman wanted to record and document her hospital stay. To learn more about the body confidence movement,Bored Pandareached out toMichaela Leitz-Aslaksen.
Michaela is an internationally acclaimedfashion consultantand advocate for size inclusivity. Evolving from a plus-size fashion stylist to a strategic force, she partners with brands to drive meaningful change towards diversity and equity. As a dynamic speaker and sought-after media figure, Michaela inspires confidence in women while promoting a future where fashion truly represents everyone.
“It began as a radical stand against discrimination and has grown into a call to break narrow beauty standards and celebrate true diversity. At its core, it’s about making everyone feel seen, respected, and unapologetically themselves,” she added.
The poster and herteamdefinitely seemed to be respectful of the patient. Only when it came time for the woman to use a bedpan did the OP have to figure out how to help her in the best way. Since she knew that she couldn’t lift the patient alone and that her pregnant nursing assistant shouldn’t risk doing it, she decided to ask a few people to help.
This was an extremely wise decision because research has found that around 72% of nurses suffer from chroniclower back pain. That’s why healthcare workers are supposed to either use lifting aids like mechanical devices or have two or more staff members present to help lift heavy objects or patients.
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Even though the nurse was only asking for help to lift the patient for the sake of safety, the other woman found it extremely insulting. She got mad at the OP and said that she wanted to complain to the charge nurse because her feelings had been hurt. It’s obvious that her idea of body positivity was quite warped if she was able to brush a legitimate safety concern aside.
“They’ve turned a radical fight forinclusivityinto a marketing trend, often centering the same narrow ideals the movement challenged in the first place. But at its core, body positivity still thrives in grassroots communities fighting for true representation and equity,” she explained.
Luckily, the nurse and her superior stood firm against the patient and told her that her feelings were not more important than their safety. Even though it might have hurt the woman’s feelings, hopefully, she got a wake-up call about the way she treated people.
We askedMichaelawhat she thought the body positivity movement should actually be about. She said that it should be “about feeling safe, confident, andbeautifulin the body you have right now, free from the pressure of outdated, unattainable beauty standards designed to profit off insecurities.”
“It’s about challenging these norms and pushing society to accept and celebrate all bodies and all people, without exception. True body positivity uplifts everyone and centers on creating a culture of genuine inclusivity and respect,” she added.
That’s exactly what this situation should have been about. The body-confidence advocate could have easily spread her message while being aware of her limitations and respecting the people around her. Instead, all she got was a rude wake-up call!
People sided with the poster and said that she was right to look after her team’s well-being rather than pander to the other woman’s feelings
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