AnEnglish coupleis facingbacklashafter posting a series of videos highlighting theirsignificant age gap, leading users to label them as “creepy.”
21-year-oldEllie Liptrotfrom Wales posted a playful video titled: “Get ready with me while my 44-year-old boyfriend guesses the prices of my makeup.” Viewers, however, paid almost no attention to the clip’s original intent, focusing instead on the couple’s age difference.
HighlightsEllie Liptrot, 21, faces backlash for her 23-year age gap relationship with 44-year-old boyfriend.Despite criticism, Ellie and Mark have a growing social media following showcasing their age gap relationship.Lawyers highlight a higher divorce risk with significant age gaps, up to 95% for a 20-year difference.Fans praise Ellie for honesty and share their own age gap relationship success stories.
One user joked, “I’m Glad your dad does TikToks with you,” to which Ellie replied,“He’s the best daddy.”
Reactions ranged from offensive, like a user suggesting she was offering her body in exchange for monetary support, to more supportive, with netizens sharing their own experiences dating people significantly older than them.
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One user specifically questioned her line of work, to whichElliereplied that she only does social media for a living. This led others to insult her. “She works bonking older men,” one said. “Getting paid and getting laid,” another wrote.
Despite the backlash, Ellie and her boyfriend, Mark, have amassed a considerablesocial media following. Their most popular videos center on the realities of their 23-year age gap and the challenges Ellie experiences as a stepmother to Mark’s children.
Ellie addressed her followers’ concerns in aQ&A sessionhosted on the platform on August 6.
“I met Mark when I was 18 and he was 41 through a mutual friend. We moved in together in April 2022, and shortly after, we took a trip to Marbella,” she explained, adding that it wasn’t long before she became a stepmom to Mark’s children, as he regained due to them not having “the best relationship with their mother.”
Regardless of the backlash, her fans praised her for being honest, and many shared their own success stories of being in relationships with older partners
“I was 20 when I met a ‘Mark’ who was 43. We have two kids now,” one stated.
“I’m 28, and my partner is 43,age is nothing,” another shared.
“I’m 26 and my fiancé is 52! I have a daughter, and he has a son. But we are all one big family! 7-years strong,” a viewer commented.
“When I first came across your account, I didn’t Have the best perception of your relationship, but I feel like you’ve been together a while now, and you are both genuinely happy, which is all that counts,” one of her fans wrote.
Lawyers explain that, statistically, the likelihood of a marriage ending in divorce increases the older the couple is, with a 20-year gap equalling a 95% possibility of separation
“A couple with a 1-year age difference has a 3% greater likelihood of divorce. If there is a 5-year age difference, the risk increases 18%,” Chang stated. “A 10-year age difference yields an increased risk of 39%, and if there is a 20-year age difference, the risk increases to 95%.”
Luis Salinas Muñoz, a founding member ofSalinas & Ojeda, a family law firm, agreed with Chang’s assessmentand explained toBored Pandahow it correlates with his professional experience.
“Divorces between spouses with anoticeable age differenceare much more common,” Salinas said. “This may be due to growing differences in interests over time and through shared life experiences, which eventually lead tomarital breakdowns.”
According to Salinas, one of the main contributing factors to adivorcebetween people with significant age differences is the natural deterioration of one of the spouse’s health.
“It places additional pressure on both partners,” Salinas said. “The older spouse needs to stay actively engaged healthily so that, despite the age difference, they can maintain a fulfilling and vital connection with their partner.”
Ellie’s fanbase praised the influencer for keeping a positive attitude despite her critics and urged others to be more open-minded about her situation
Among Ellie’s most popular clips is one in which she is showndancing and having funwith her two stepchildren.
One user said, “I thought you were siblings. You look the same age; I thought you were joking.”
“If she’s happy, then leave her be!! The kids are happy and loved, and so is she. Leave her alone!” one user commented.
“Let me tell you something: taking on someone else’s children isn’t easy. You’re doing an amazing job!” another wrote.
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