Each of us has ourown skeletonsin the closet – small or big secrets with which some negative memories are associated. Moments when we felt bad, were ashamed, or when we were completely disgraced – and we want to forget these situations forever, but we can’t.
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The author of the post recently gave birth to her second child, a girl named Alannah
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It was the parents’ combined decision to give their daughter this name – and everyone was happy with it. Everyone but the mom’s sister
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The woman got mad and claimed this name was ‘ugly’ and inappropriate for her niece
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However, the woman didn’t offer any reasonable grounds why she thinks so – except that the girl could get bullied over this name in future
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So, the Original Poster (OP) says that a few weeks ago, shegave birthto her second child, a girl. The new mom agreed in advance with her husband that they would name their daughter Alannah – and solemnly announced the name to relatives and closest friends. It’s unlikely that the couple expected a violent reaction from anyone – after all, Alannah isn’t a very common name, but also not so strange, as sometimes happens.
Quite suddenly, the author’s younger sister showed a weird reaction, acting like the name Alannah meant something completely terrible to her. The woman stated that this was a completely unacceptable name and that it would be very difficult for her niece to live with it. To say that the mom was surprised is an understatement, because her sis had never exhibited such drama queen-style behavior before.
Moreover, after some time, the sister approached the original poster again and literally begged her to change her decision about the name for the girl. When the OP asked about the reasons for such conviction, the sister didn’t give any reasonable answer, but said that later, years and years later, her daughter would only thank her mom and aunt for ‘saving’ her from such a terrible name.
Well, the author, of course, didn’t intendto renameher daughter – but she sincerely tried to understand which reasons motivated her sister. According to the woman’s own words, they had been quite close since early childhood, so she’d have perhaps known about some conflicts with someone named Alannah. But the original poster remembers nothing like this.
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According to other versions, Alannah is an anglicized version of the Gaelic word a leanbh, which in turn means ‘O child.’ Makes sense, considering that the original poster’s husband is, according to her, of Irish descent. By the way, the name Alannah is quite popular, for example, in Canada and Australia – just remember theGrammy-winningCandian singerAlannah Mylesor the Australian fashion designerAlannah Hill.
In any case, Alannah is a wonderful name, and we’re sure that the girl will have a wonderful life full of good events. Commenters on the original post also believe that the author’s sister is 100% overreacting. “Alannah is a familiar name for a girl when I was growing up, and I don’t remember anyone being made fun of for it,” someone reasonably wrote.
Well Alannah isn’t that common of a name – however, it’s pretty familiar and the commenters also think it’s nice and beautiful
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