If your child has any developmental challenges, such as speech delays, be prepared for criticism of your parenting from the most unexpected people. Trust me, I know what I’m talking about – my two older daughters also had speech delays. And it was actually damn frustrating to hear unfair criticism from relatives who weren’t even close to knowing all the details.

The useru/thronedownandout, the author of today’s story, also faced something similar when her own mother criticized her for the fact that her three-year-old son isn’t that talkative for his age. But let’s not get ahead of ourselves in reading the tale.

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The author of the post has a 3-year-old son whom she loves very much, and she does her best to raise him properly

Mom smiling with toddler, taking a selfie in a cozy room, highlighting family bond despite non-talkative behavior concerns.

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The only problem here is that the boy isn’t that talkative and usually prefers to communicate with gestures

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The mom is aware of all the possible problems here and is actively searching for a speech therapist

Text discussing a family conflict about a non-talkative 3-year-old, highlighting issues of neglect and communication.

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However, her own mother thinks that she is wrong for letting the kid communicate how he wants

Text questioning decision to leave after grandparents comment on neglectful parenting of non-talkative child.

Text discussing a child’s speech development, parental actions, and consulting a pediatrician.

Text discussing a non-talkative 3-year-old using sign language and flashcards, without involvement from the biological dad.

Text discussing mother’s actions for non-talkative son amid neglect claims.

Recently, at a family gathering, the grandma started criticizing the author again – and she ended up just leaving

So, the Original Poster (OP) is 24 years old. She’s a single mom to her 3-year-old son ‘Cass,’ and she’s happilyraisinghim. The boy is very smart and, according to his mom, the only thing that bothers her is that for his age, Cass is not very willing to talk. No, he understands everything, he knows a lot of words, but he prefers to communicate with gestures.

The author believes that this is not a problem, and their pediatrician also agrees with her, but she is still looking for a speech therapist, and in the meantime, she is studying sign language with Cass. In turn, theauthor’s motherhas long been ready to sound the alarm about this, and always tries to literally force her grandson to communicate with speech, even if it’s uncomfortable for him.

Another drama on this matter broke out recently during a family lunch, where the author’s stepdad, her stepbrother and his family (in particular, his son, a year older than Cass) were also present.

While ordering food, another boy told the waiter what he wanted, while Cass pointed at the menu. The OP’s mom and stepdad again began loudly comparing the communication skills of their two grandkids – not in Cass’s favor – and this angered our heroine.

She simply paid for her order and, taking the food with her, left with her son. And when her mom later called her and criticized her for her “disrespectful behavior,” she objected that if anyone wasdisrespectfulin this situation, it was the mother and her husband themselves, discussing the little kids in their presence.

A child in a dimly lit room, crossing fingers to make an “X” gesture, representing non-talkative behavior concerns.

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“Be that as it may, the very fact that this mother says that she is looking for a speech therapist indicates that she’s trying to resolve this issue for her child. At the same time, despite the grandmother’s concern being quite understandable, her methods actually raise questions. For example, comparing two children directly in their presence is, to put it mildly, unpedagogical.”

Most commenters supported the author but also urged her to find a speech therapist for her son as soon as possible

Reddit discussion about a non-talkative child, possibly on the autism spectrum, with supportive comments for the mother.

Reddit conversation supporting a mom against accusations of neglectful parenting.

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Discussion about non-talkative 3YO boy and neglect accusation on online forum.

Reddit comment from a pediatric therapist discussing non-talkative children and alternative communication methods.

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Comment discussing childhood speech development and success, mentioning talking for a younger sibling until age 4.

Screenshot of a supportive comment defending a non-talkative 3-year-old, mentioning proactive steps by the mom.

Forum user comments on non-talkative 3YO, supporting mom despite grandparents' views.

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